Disclaimer: I've only been to Citricos, Flying Fish, and Artist's Point. Citricos was the one I dined at most recently, but to me it felt the most upscale. The food was delectable, service outstanding. Dined with a large group and everyone was impressed.
Ate at Artist's Point with DH several years ago. Enjoyed it very, very much.
Flying Fish was somewhat of a letdown. Very, very loud, and some of the food didn't live up to potential.
Between Citricos and AP, I would choose based upon which menu appeals the most.
Would love to try Narcoosee's sometime! However, Jiko is on the top of my list of must-try's. Any reason it's not on your list?