Yes, it is for dinner, sorry forgot to add the "p.m." My DD and her friend who's joining us are in their teens, so they won't want to go to a lot of the shows, or meet characters, etc. My main concern was seeing the fireworks and late parade, and we will be fine to do both. Plus, we will plan on arriving at 4.
But most of all, it's my birthday, and the dinner is my big present to myself, so they'll have to go along with it