Back from Wonderland:wAlice,Madhatter,ChesCat&White Rabbit 11/11Thank You

They are, thanks!

I'd skip it, really. There are modified ones that aren't as bad but the real thing? :(


exciting!!!!!



I'll make a new one for Kathy that says

"Look! I finally GOT the reservation!"

Someday the rest of us can wear that one.

You can start a cottage industry...:lmao:


Just checking in...I've had a awful week...for a variety of reasons...but I really need to check around and read everyone's stuff...very cheering and I hope to post a new installment today/tomorrow...

Hope everyone else is doing well...

Have some reading to do...:surfweb:
 
Hi Triple P :wave2:

sorry I have gotten so behind in your TR here...I just busted thru the last 6 pages I think....so I may have missed a bit in all the chatter :confused3

Love the whole story and pictures of Jedi Rabbit, they are awesome and your stroy about it and everything tied in it w/ your emotions and what David lives w/ each day is so wonderfully put.

thank you for sharing :hug:



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Just checking in...I've had a awful week...for a variety of reasons...but I really need to check around and read everyone's stuff...very cheering and I hope to post a new installment today/tomorrow...

Hope everyone else is doing well...

Have some reading to do...:surfweb:

:hug: I'm sorry you've had a bad week! I hope a little dis time cheers you up and you have a great weekend!
 
Awww...Patricia I am all caught up now and I have to tell you David is my little hero!! What a great little guy he is and what a man he'll grow up to be!! Especially with a mother who believes in him and stands up for him like you have!!! Huge hugs to you!! I'm so glad David was able to defeat the Dark side in more than one way!!!! Thank you so much for sharing that story with us! I have students with Aspergers and they are some of my brightest kids and its sad to see how so many others have labeled them and treated them over the years by the time they get to me!!!

Here's to you and your amazing family!!!
 
Patricia, I am sorry your week was awful, I hope the next week will make up for it!! :hug:
 
Yea! I'm finally caught up! Slowly but surely making my way through my friends' TRs while I try to write mine...

I really hope you are feeling better. :hug: I'm sorry you had to go through whatever made last week awful.

A couple of comments (I'm doing this from memory):

Glad you were able to turn EPCOT into a good day. I do love EPCOT. Sorry your French meal wasn't what it should have been...you'll rectify that in March.

I was :lmao: about the CM in China. Poor Rabbit. And BTW, I was thinking Emily looked like Selena Gomez. Maybe it's just me. :confused3

VERY glad I didn't have to experience the Running of TSM. We rode it twice, on different days and one time had to wait a very long time. But it is SUCH an awesome ride. :3dglasses We did not make rope drop at DHS. Actually, I don't think we ever made rope drop. June will be different from this trip in that respect.

SOOO very happy that Rabbit (and the rest of your family) was able to have his Jedi experience. Your story brought tears to my eyes as well (I've heard some of it, but I hadn't heard that part). I'm glad David didn't need to know about the school rejecting him and I'm so thankfully you've found a positive place for him.

I still wonder if Will doesn't fall somewhere on the spectrum. He really seems to have quite a few of the "qualities" so to speak, but we've never gotten to the point where we needed him tested. He does have some "social" misunderstandings. He hugs A LOT and he often doesn't get jokes, but he still seems to be fairly popular, which I think is due to his being an athlete. He is a fast runner and is so good at baseball. And it looks like he might be good at basketball too. So I think the other kids "forgive" him so to speak for some of his social...um...blunders because he's good at sports. Which I am very thankful for. I think we are eventually going to have to really look into the anxiety problem though.

I hope things are better for you this week. I'm looking forward to hearing about the rest of your trip, and the beginning of your planning for next year. I think the books for Alice is an awesome idea, by the way.

I know I've missed some things. I've been going back and forth between reading your TR and trying to finalize my Photopass so that I can finally order the CD (I just keep adding borders!). Between the two it's making me REALLY want to be back.

Here's another :hug: just for good measure. :goodvibes

Oh, and I hope you've been doing a better job "training" than I have. I walked once last week and once the week before and that was it. Didn't do a bit of "running" while I was in Disney either. I would have gone today but it's been torrential downpour outside all day today. If I don't get called to sub tomorrow I am GOING. We're right at 15 months and counting...
 
Awww...Thanks to everyone who posted with "hope things are going better wishes"...I'm going to go back to respond to all of them...but I'm going to post a shortish trip update first...I think due to my mood I kind of lost my writing mojo and I want to get it back so hopefully this will get me going...

Star Tours and Sci Fi Diner...


So were do you go after you become a Jedi?

Well we were now off with our own little Jedi to ride Star Tours...

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not that Jedi-this Jedi...

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It was cute- a couple of CMs after looking at Rabbit shirt...asked Rabbit if he had been to the Jedi Academy and he was able to answer in the affirmative and mention that he had fought Darth Vader...and won...:goodvibes

We rode Star Tours-it was even more fun now that Rabbit is into Star Wars...(Alice wasn't really ever as much into it although she definitely took more of an interest in the 2nd and 3rd episode of the Movies...the ones in which Anakin has grown up into a tall, handsome suitor to Padme...I have a really hard time watching these now that I know what happens to Anakin...:sad2:)

(I can't wait to see what the upgrade to the Star Tours ride will be like...the clips from the D23 Expo looked fabulous...)

Wow-I had forgotten-this ride kind of "dumps" you out into a Star Wars store heaven...this could get really dangerous if you have a Star Wars fan in your family...(ummm...basically like we do-but as we had already made a saber at DTD and I had purchased some tee shirts at Target before we left and had bought our Stars Fandex from home-I felt ok sort of moving Rabbit through here on the quicker side...

Rabbit looked around with his eyes almost bigger than his head...and settled on...another (small) Star Wars Lego set...(shock of all shocks)...he also had his dad sneak a little stuffed Ewok magnet in the bag for me...(which I thought was really kind of sweet...I now have him with my finger puppet magnets of Washington, Lincoln, and Teddy Roosevelt...(yes I am aware of my own nerdiness) it's my own little Mt. Rushmore set up-I have the Ewok taking the place of Thomas Jefferson until I find him...lol...

We then took the obligitory photo of Rabbit and Alice before our way over to our early lunch at Sci Fi...

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We were the teeniest bit early for lunch so we popped into the Writer's Corner next store...which is a small but really cute place to grab a coffee or tea and a sweet-I was eyeing some carrot cake sandwich cookies but resisted as we'd be eating lunch really soon...there were some nice books...and out on the coffee table between the chairs and sofa I got my first look at the D23 magazine...Disney twenty three...I fell in love...not only was it lovely, glossy oversized magazine...there were some really great articles in it...lots of great articles on films, the parks, the muscials...hmmm...I wanted one...but they weren't selling it...it is one of the benefits of D23 membership...(foreshadowing...)

(Sci Fi takes a lot of hits on the Dining Threads...but I think that the atmosphere is a blast and it makes good shakes and burgers and it sort of an attraction unto itself)

We had a really nice waiter...really attentive and sort of well -just sweet...

Alice and I shared a black and white shake/ a cheeseburger and a salad...

Rabbit and Hatter each had their own burgers and fries and Hatter had an
"adult milkshake..."

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I just get such a kick out of the Sci Fi movie clips/cartoons in here...I think it is a really great slice of Americana...with the drive in theme and the burgers and the cars...etc...just fun...I always feel...well just relaxed here...

Food was great-really yummy milkshakes...I could have happily stayed here...if only they could lengthen the loop of the video clips they show..(I think its about a half hour-and we had probably seen everything at least twice...

It was time to continue our Studio Adventures...

Next Up: The Great Movie Ride, Meeting a Prince and Animation Academy...
 
Last week was a kind of all over the place week...It had its highs...:cloud9:...and its lows...:sad2:...

It sort of felt like the week with multiple personality disorder and it was kind of hard to know how and what to feel on a day to day basis...

On a positive note...

We celebrated both Alice's and Hatter's Birthdays :cake:-they are two days apart and Hatter and my anniversary...:hug:, so literally we had Hatter's b-day, day off, Alice's Birthday, our anniversary...

Hatter and I are actually celebrating our anniversary this weekend...(we are going away to Alexandria, Va for the weekend...) and we booked and put half deposit down on our apt. in Paris for March...:thumbsup2

On a difficult note...

Alice is now 15...(ooops I have to change her in my siggie...she is a real teenager now...(14 is kind of real but with 15-there just is no doubt about it...and then I was getting kind of maudlin that she'll be going off to college in 4 years...:eek:

But this was just silly and emotional on my part...

My bigger issue was that...

I just had an intuitive sense that something was off at school with Rabbit...(he's doing really well academically...but when I'd ask about who he was playing with...well didn't feel right...:confused3

(I had requested a meeting several weeks ago in which I had emphasized how pleased I was with Rabbit's in class work but how important the Social Component is...and I sort of felt well...a little blown off, a little discounted...I mean if he's good in class and he's doing ok- well then everything's ok right...(I mean I'm just a neurotic mom-right...?wellllllll......

I get an email last week from the new school counselor basically informing me that while David is happily running about chasing leaves he is not making very successful inroads into engaging kids in play at recess...:sad2:...(Reading between the lines...she doesn't understand his diagnosis...I don't know what her experiences have been...:confused3)

So for the heck of it...I decide to go into school and have lunch with David and hang out for recess...to make a long story short...his classroom is a little organized slice of heaven...but when you get down to the lunchroom...it's the 2nd grade version of Lord of the Flies...:sad2:

I wound up with a whole variety of kids trying to sit at our table-basically because there was an interested adult to engage...and looking around...quite a few of these kids could use some kind of support/engagement at lunch...

Recess was a interesting bag...I started a game of tag with my son-who I realized didn't get the rules...and after I explained it- we played it for at least 15-minutes with about 4-5 other kids joining in...:)

Ugghhhhh---what I've come to realize is that since some of David's prime needs socially aren't in the classroom...its in the lunchroom and the playground where its all unstructured and a free for all...He could use some tools/scaffolding/basically some help navigating the social world...(I think it's just easier to make your point when you are talking about a verbal learning disorder as opposed to a social learning disorder...)

The big question for me is how I'm going to convince not just the teacher (who is really pretty good in the classroom) but the administrators that the stuff that happens in the lunchroom and playground is part of the bigger picture...so I've basically been spending my free time trying to wrap my brains around this...:headache:

I'm not sure that this free for all system actually works for a variety of kids...anyone with not just Asperger's but ADD or any sensory issues or even just kids who are a little introverted...it seems that there could/should be a better way...

so I probably need to propose somethings...that aren't going to cost a lot of money...I have the flexibility to go into school several times (twice) a week but I'd need a buy in and support...what to do...what to do...:confused3

Anyway...that's why I've had a massive headache for the last week and I'm hoping to try to improve it...:headache:

and I feel guilty to be going away with Hatter but it is for our anniversary and in a lot of ways... I think its really a good idea for everyone...(Rabbit is basically thrilled to spend two nights at his grandparents...it'll be 2 1/2 days of a fun fest for him...


Ugghh...this whole post sounds so Dr. Phil or something...but it was at least cathartic...

Disboards...much cheaper than therapy and a heck of a lot more fun...(Unofficial slogan...:lmao:)

and Now Back to the Regularly Scheduled Program...
 
Patricia, so sorry to hear that you had an awful week!!! :hug: I hope the weekend is a bit brighter for you!

Thanks...:hug: all things considered and putting it in perpective...I know I'm very fortunate is many, many ways....


Hi Triple P :wave2:

sorry I have gotten so behind in your TR here...I just busted thru the last 6 pages I think....so I may have missed a bit in all the chatter :confused3

Love the whole story and pictures of Jedi Rabbit, they are awesome and your stroy about it and everything tied in it w/ your emotions and what David lives w/ each day is so wonderfully put.

thank you for sharing :hug:

Hey Scrappie,:wave:

That Jedi moment still makes me smile when I think about it and I'm sure it always will...











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I love it...now that shirt is something that you'll never see in a WDW gift shop...:lmao:


Sorry you are having a bad week! :hug:

It's much better now...these boards have a very soothing effective...:hug:...kind of like an alternative treatment to meds...:lmao:


Mousescrapper, that shirt is awesome!!! :lmao:

:rotfl: thanks....

Mousescrapper, I love the shirt!

Patricia

:hug:

it's friday :goodvibes

It really is awesome...:woohoo:I'm thinking one of you creative ladies needs to start a subversive line of Dis Clothes...in adddition to all your other projects...;)
 
It hurts so much when you see things not going well for your child! I think your idea to set up some kind of social group is great! I would think that the counselor should be trained to do something like that. If not, maybe you can talk to someone on the Child Study Team to see if they can offer up some advice.
 
:bday: Alice!
:bday: Hatter

and happy anniversary! Yay for date trips.:goodvibes

First of all I love the picture of Alice and Rabbit

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He is so into it, it is adorable. I"m excited for the revamp of Star Tours as well, I'm not even sure when it is and need to go check that out. I have bunch of touraholics on my hands.

I agree about Sci-Fi. To-die for milkshakes and yummy burgers but the movie clips should be longer. Just like the TV clips at PTC should be longer.

Now, onto Rabbit.

As you might imagine, Eric's class runs into a lot of these issues. One thing his teacher did last year (2nd) was to try to pair up kids with just a mention to both sets of parents that it might be nice for xx to play with xx, essentially facilitating some out of school playdates with kids she thought might connect so that while at school, they would hopefully play more at recess.

She didn't do it with Eric but I know it helped the older sibling of one of Eric's classmates quite a bit at the time.

I kind of wish she would have done it with Eric, it was something done at the beginning of the year and his "best" friend was in his class so I think she figured they were both ok. Unfortunately Eric's friend is a little jock...and Eric is so very not that they really didn't want to do the same stuff at recess.

So for most of 2nd grade, Eric "daydreamed" by his own account, at recess and was quite content. It really bothered me.

Fast forward one year later and he is playing with different kids at recess and no longer daydreaming. I think that kids like Rabbit, and Eric can develop those skills on their own, but maturity wise it is at a different pace. Just be careful not to overthink it :hug:

And I'm not sure about Rabbit but Eric was happy as a clam in his own little world. It worried us but he knew he was fine. Sometimes we have to listen to them.

Maybe you could ask the teacher for a "friend" suggestion for him and start slowly at home with a playdate invite?
 
:hug: I'm sorry you've had a bad week! I hope a little dis time cheers you up and you have a great weekend!

Patricia - :hug:

Thanks Ladies...:hug:...I'm actually finding some Dis time and maybe a glass of wine ;) to be very good therapy indeed...


Awww...Patricia I am all caught up now and I have to tell you David is my little hero!! What a great little guy he is and what a man he'll grow up to be!! Especially with a mother who believes in him and stands up for him like you have!!! Huge hugs to you!! I'm so glad David was able to defeat the Dark side in more than one way!!!! Thank you so much for sharing that story with us! I have students with Aspergers and they are some of my brightest kids and its sad to see how so many others have labeled them and treated them over the years by the time they get to me!!!

Here's to you and your amazing family!!!

Thanks Jen...:hug: He really is an amazing little guy...:thumbsup2 hmmm....do I tell him that he's your little hero...:rolleyes1...I think he's already a little sweet on you...what to do...what to do...:rolleyes1-oh heck I'll tell him...;)

Awww...good luck with your AS kids...it is much better for them to have someone empathetic like you...it can be tough for you/ and then especially if they haven't gotten any social kinds of interventions...that's why I keep fighting for it for David-it's a little bit like a foreign language -the earlier the exposure (intervention) the more and better they can learn to think socially-the way you can more successfully learn a foreign when you are started earlier and you can even pick up the appropriate accent...:thumbsup2





Patricia, I am sorry your week was awful, I hope the next week will make up for it!! :hug:

Except for the little bit of mommy guilt-this should definitely be a great weekend...lovely hotel, great meals-some wine- spa treatments...facial and reflexology- and history-Mt. Vernon, the New Newseum(news museum) and the Museum of the Native Americans in Washington DC...hmmm...I'm thinking it will all be good...
 
Hey Heather...:hug:I know you've been having a pretty rough patch...have to check out your new tr...(I enjoy reading everyone else's stuff sometimes even more than writing...:goodvibes)

Yea! I'm finally caught up! Slowly but surely making my way through my friends' TRs while I try to write mine...

I really hope you are feeling better. :hug: I'm sorry you had to go through whatever made last week awful.

It wasn't all bad...;)


A couple of comments (I'm doing this from memory):

Glad you were able to turn EPCOT into a good day. I do love EPCOT. Sorry your French meal wasn't what it should have been...you'll rectify that in March.
Most definitely...:woohoo:


I was :lmao: about the CM in China. Poor Rabbit. And BTW, I was thinking Emily looked like Selena Gomez. Maybe it's just me. :confused3

She actually got that twice at DWD by two different CMs...she actually is really lovely in person and an amazingly nice girl too...and I plan on keeping it that way...:thumbsup2


VERY glad I didn't have to experience the Running of TSM. We rode it twice, on different days and one time had to wait a very long time. But it is SUCH an awesome ride. :3dglasses We did not make rope drop at DHS. Actually, I don't think we ever made rope drop. June will be different from this trip in that respect.

SOOO very happy that Rabbit (and the rest of your family) was able to have his Jedi experience. Your story brought tears to my eyes as well (I've heard some of it, but I hadn't heard that part). I'm glad David didn't need to know about the school rejecting him and I'm so thankfully you've found a positive place for him.

I'm really glad he didn't know either-he was just a baby really...5 years old...:confused3...kind of weird to get kicked out of a school that admits that you're smart, sweet but they basically aren't sure what to do with you...I have a fantasy though that he (being the brilliant little guy he is, makes some kind of great scientific discovery and they get the dubious distinction of being the school that kicked him out after Pre-K-childish I know...but satisfying...:rolleyes1


I still wonder if Will doesn't fall somewhere on the spectrum. He really seems to have quite a few of the "qualities" so to speak, but we've never gotten to the point where we needed him tested. He does have some "social" misunderstandings. He hugs A LOT and he often doesn't get jokes, but he still seems to be fairly popular, which I think is due to his being an athlete. He is a fast runner and is so good at baseball. And it looks like he might be good at basketball too. So I think the other kids "forgive" him so to speak for some of his social...um...blunders because he's good at sports. Which I am very thankful for. I think we are eventually going to have to really look into the anxiety problem though.

While being actually diagnosed on the spectrum is based on having enough "criteria' for the doctors to look at the DSM IV and say ok-yes this person fits the criteria...there are individuals who have 4 out of the 5 or 3 out of the 5...and that means they can still have some of the same needs/problems as someone who actually has the diagnosis-but not actually have the diagnosis...I know that probably sounded totally cryptic but I don't think the brain is so set that you either are definitely are or definitely not...

I actually think my brother is as close to having Asperger's as you can get without the official diagnosis...

He is very bright but sort of in his own world at times...he started to play football when he was younger but he actually gravitated more towards track and a little basketball...

Being sporty or having an ability in sports definitely gives boys a leg up...so good for Will and his being good at baseball...boy conversations definitely can take a sporty twist so that is totally to his advantage...

(David is a good little swimmer and he is definitely advancing in karate...I'm signing him up for some basketball because he has mentioned an interest in it...and I'm grabbing that interest and going with in...we'll see how he does but it can only help him to learn the game and have it as a point of reference...

Anxiety is rough too...:hug:it can color everything around you...Em's had here struggles with that also...



I hope things are better for you this week. I'm looking forward to hearing about the rest of your trip, and the beginning of your planning for next year. I think the books for Alice is an awesome idea, by the way.

Things are definitely on the upswing...I sort of feel like starting a pre trippie but I'm not doing it till I finish this and the Pirate's League stuff and cruise should be fun to write...

I know I've missed some things. I've been going back and forth between reading your TR and trying to finalize my Photopass so that I can finally order the CD (I just keep adding borders!). Between the two it's making me REALLY want to be back.

Here's another :hug: just for good measure. :goodvibes

Right back at you...:hug:


Oh, and I hope you've been doing a better job "training" than I have. I walked once last week and once the week before and that was it. Didn't do a bit of "running" while I was in Disney either. I would have gone today but it's been torrential downpour outside all day today. If I don't get called to sub tomorrow I am GOING. We're right at 15 months and counting...

Hmmm....:blush:when I stress out I do the exact opposite of what I should do...meaning excercise ...if you're going...than I can get my tush out the door too...:thumbsup2
 




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