Bachlorette...thoughts...

[TRAPPED-PARENT]

I, too, was willing to give her the benefit of the doubt in thinking the show wanted to imply she had slept with them --- until the host made a point of saying that she had indicated she had no problems sleeping with the guys to find out who was Mr. Right.

As far as I'm concerned, that confirmed that she did indeed sleep with both!

 

[tkyes]

Do you think maybe they told the host to bring that point up again so viewers would think that she slept with them?

I think they accomplished their goal since we are all talking about it.

 

[mtemm]

I agree...there is no way of knowing if she slept with them or not w/o them coming right out and saying it. Right now its all in the editing.

Even if they spent the night in the same room, doesn't mean that they did anything more than make out. Camera's were gone by then, as was pointed out. Anything might or might not have happened...the host/crew/producers don't necessarily know.

Ryan is not my type at all...Charlie is a doll.

 

[TRAPPED-PARENT]

If it quacks like a duck ....

 

[danacara]

Let he who is without sexual sin cast the first stone, and get off her back about who she decides to sleep with.

I think Ryan represents the person she wishes she was, and Charlie represents the person she actually is.

 

[Jeafl]

Dana, I think you hit the nail on the head. I think she really cares about Ryan, but she won't pick him because he's too nice. She will go for Charlie because he's more of the rogue. Plus, since she no longer has a job, I think Charlie's job as a financial planner will suit her better than Ryan's job as a fireman.

 

[TRAPPED-PARENT]

Danacara - Sounds like you too think she slept with them both.

As for being on her back ... she seems to have enough volunteers already. Anyway, isn't that the point of the show for all of us to tune in and have an opinion?

Well, I tuned in and that is my opinion. You obviously have a different one.

 

[snoopy]

I'm not without sexual sin, but I still think the ick factor is high if she slept with two guys in the same week.

So maybe I am casting a stone, heh heh. Oh well, it happens to the best of us on ocassion.

 

[Pam]

Maybe she just shared the same bed space with them - but had no carnal knowledge of them......

I'm sure we'll eventually hear all in an Enquirer interview.

Pam

 

[Michelle]

I'm sorry, but the double standard is alive and well here. The BACHELOR slept with both Amanda and Trista near the end of the original show, they made that CLEAR, and no one blinked twice about that. It would not by MY choice, but I'm not judging Trista for whatever she did or did not do.

And I'm glad she booted Russ.

 

[snoopy]

I never watched the first Bachelor, Michelle, but the ick factor would have been high for me if I had seen him sleep with two girls in one week.

I'm an equal opportunity ick factor kind of gal.

 

[Liz]

I saw Trista on some show and she admitted to sleeping with ONE of them, the guy she ends up choosing. Who knows.

I'm on the side of not sleeping with someone till you're married but if we go down that road this will end up being moved to the debate board!

 

[Luckymommyx2]

All I have to say is that I'm glad Russ is gone!!

 

[kidzmom3]

It is undeniable that she is beautiful, but what is with the baby talk???? I just hate the way she is always moaning AHHHHH! in that baby voice when she doesn't know what to say. i would think that would be annoying after a while. Charlie said that he had not seen her for at least a week, so if she slept with Ryan on the first date, there may have been longer than a week between the two sleepovers. Still, I am a grossed out by blantantly having sexual relations with someone while everyone knows. I didn't even want anyone to know which hotel room we stayed in for our wedding night, afraid someone from the reception would come up to the door! ewww

 

[TiggerPiglet]

From the sound of Charlie's tape, it didn't sound like they had sex. He said something like, "it was great falling asleep with you in my arms." To me it seemed like all they did was sleep together and nothing more than probably a little kissing and groping, but who knows.

 

[Robinrs]

I MISSED IT!!! waaaaaaaaa!!

Oh well, I just love the fact that I will NEVER have to see Russ' silly grin again!!

 

[smiley]

I am not assuming that Trista slept with either Ryan or Charlie. The only thing that is known for sure is that they spent the night in the same room. I have slept in the same hotel room with a person of romantic interest, with whom I'm not married, and not had sexual relations. I believe that Trista could easily sleep in the same room with both of them and not have sex. But then again, who am I to judge? They are grown adults if they want to do the nasty, go for it. It confuses me that whether or not they slept together is such a big deal.

 

[DopeyRN]

BAWA HAHAHAHA!!!! I thought Dan was serious!!!!

I watched it last night for the first time. That girl is so fake, so annoying, so self centered....I liked Ryan..he is sweet and cute and does not seem full of himself. But last night was the only night I have seen him so I could be completely wrong. Oh did I mention she has a whiny voice too?

I am a firm believer in chastity. *gasp* To "sleep around" in private is bad enough, but on TV? Yuk! (I AM all for kissing and snuggling and feel intimacy is way more important in determining compatability than sex. Even animals have the sex figured out.)

Disclaimer: This is simply my opinion. I AM curious to know who she chooses...I will check in with you guys to find out.

 

[smiley]

Oh yeah, I forgot to mention. I CAN'T STAND TRISTA'S WHINING BABY TALK!!

I hope she picks Charlie, because Ryan deserves to have a more genuine person in his court. Ryan will be a good man for the right person.

 

[Sal]

Am I the only one who felt a little sorry for Russ? I have waited week after week for him to get the boot. I thought he was a big creep. Then last week, we saw him with his family. I loved the way his niece called him "Punka" and seemed to adore him. Last night, I thought Trista was just rude to him.

I's still glad he is gone. I am sticking with Charlie.

My news today said that Russ was spotted doing cocaine and that it was confirmed that Greg was caught with the same. Anyone else hear this?