Babnanas 9: Something snappy.....Like BACON!!

[creativeamanda]

I came over here to whine because I can't do it on Facebook because everyone there will know exactly who I'm talking about.

Two years ago, when it was announced that our current principal was coming over to our school, I kind of cringed, because in my role as Autism Coordinator, we had at times butted heads. But I dealt with it, and I thought she and I had moved to a great working relationship. Last year when the world was against her, I and maybe a handful of other teachers stood by her.

This year I took on a lot more than I could handle, but no one else would do it and it would have left her in a bad place. I never complained I had too much to her.

In February when the Low Incidence Specialist job opened at the district office, I talked to her and told her I was applying, but that as I did not know what that meant for my family, I couldn't tell her that I would take the job if offered.

A month rolls by. Even though I had not been interviewed, in the days following me turning in the application, the special ed director starts handing me assignments that would only make sense for me to do it if I was the Low Incidence Specialist. My principal meanwhile asks if I had applied yet. I tell her yes, and she gives me a sad smile. She knows something I don't.

On the day of the interview, I am handed the job description for the job. It is apparent from the description that only one person in the county is qualified for the job. Even though it was not official, I knew I had the job.

This week, on Monday and Tuesday, my principal was friendly with me as she typically is. Wednesday morning, I get a call and am asked to be in the superintendent's office within the hour. I tell the principal. It's apparent she knows, as well.

Since then, she has not said more than 5 words to me other than in a meeting Wednesday afternoon that both of us had to attend. I was determined that perhaps I would talk to her after school yesterday, but by the time yesterday afternoon rolled around, I was so upset, I didn't think I could be professional.

I know a principal is a busy person, but not even saying "Good Morning?" That's not like her.

Either way, I'm upset. The week one gets a promotion should be one where the recipient is happy. I've cried every day since then.

 

[LegoMom3]

Ok first of all, amanda, hugs are in order: Wish I could give you a real one.

I think it's quite apparent that your principal is upset that she's losing you. That does not excuse the unprofessional, high-school-ish silent treatment, but I'm willing to guess that's the reason. When do you move on?....is this new position for next school year, or start immediately? If it's next year, you'll have to just put on the strong face and continue to be your normal self around this woman. Perhaps after a time you'll be able to confront her and maintain your professionalism. I know it's hard right now. I also hope you can move through this somehow so you can fully concentrate on the new job!! It should be a happy time for you! Don't let one person totally wreck that. You are good at what you do and I think everyone around you knows that. Stand strong!

By the way, are you anywhere near South of the Border??!

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[creativeamanda]

Legomom--I wrote her an email yesterday afternoon and told her I wanted to have an appointment with her to talk to her. I start the job July 1, and there is some information I need to give her so the sped director does not blindside her.

And I live 30 min from South of the Border. I go to church 5 min from there.

 

[LegoMom3]

Legomom--I wrote her an email yesterday afternoon and told her I wanted to have an appointment with her to talk to her. I start the job July 1, and there is some information I need to give her so the sped director does not blindside her.

And I live 30 min from South of the Border. I go to church 5 min from there.

Just wondering, because we are stopping there for the night on our way to Florida in June.

Good luck with the whole transition bit....I do hope this little "conflict" resolves well and everything goes smoothly!

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[creativeamanda]

Just wondering, because we are stopping there for the night on our way to Florida in June.

Good luck with the whole transition bit....I do hope this little "conflict" resolves well and everything goes smoothly!

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Beginning or end of June?

 

[PaMom001]

First off, Amanda. And then to you for the new position.

 

[LegoMom3]

Beginning or end of June?

PM'd you!

 

[kwitcherkicken99]

That stinks Amanda. You shouldn't be made to feel bad for advancing yourself.

I dunno if anyone has told you lately, but...

YOU ROCK!

 

[SadieDog]

creativeamanda, I'm sorry the woman is being such a turd. You are so important to her that she is acting like a teenager. Ridiculous. Try not to let it ruin your happiness. I know, easier said than done. I hope next week is better for you.

 

[SadieDog]

Thursday it was 83 and last night was in the 30's. What a difference! Sore throat, full dizzy head and can't breathe. I feel lousy. My electric blanket is warming up which will feel great b/c I keep getting chills. Going to bed 8pm on a Sat night.

 

[kwitcherkicken99]

We had a ton of rain last night and today the high was 70*. It has already dropped to 52* and will continue to drop down some more.

The kids are "freezing".

 

[LegoMom3]

It's raining here this morning and while I have no idea what the temp is, my heater just kicked in. First time in over a week! Blah. On the flip side, I'm looking out my window and noticing that all the yards around here are suddenly green!! Gotta love that.

I'm making beef tips in the crock pot today. Good day for it. Might make some bread too. It's that kind of day.

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[Mean Queen]

Amanda - I agree with LM that the Principal is just poorly reacting to losing you. Sometimes adults can't even act like adults, but the one good thing to take from her bad behavior is that she truly knows what she is losing when she loses you.

I was outside at the race all day yesterday and it was hot. Luckily, there was a nice breeze coming off the bay. But I know that won't last long. Summer is pretty much here. I'm really looking forward to my Alaska cruise (just 3 months from today!) It'll be a nice break from the heat.

 

[kwitcherkicken99]

Sorry I was MIA today.

Been cleaning all daggone day.

DS's room has been gone through with a fine tooth comb. We're supposed to be getting him bunk beds but DH is dragging his feet. Now that everything has been cleared out, I can't think of a better time to do it.

DD is refusing to sleep in her baby (toddler) bed anymore. She won't. We put her in it, she comes and sleeps in our bed. Two nights in a row we let her sleep in with DS and she stayed there all night long.

Those bunk beds can't get here fast enough.

I've got 1 week of work then we have spring break for a week. I'm planning to repaint our bathroom. I'm sick of the color that's in there. We're going with a pale blue this time around.

If I get that done in a timely manner, I may tackle our bedroom too. Plans are to go charcoal gray. We get a lot of light from our pole barn light out the back window so we want to go dark.

I've also got a play date with a childhood friend to make autograph books for their first family trip to Disney. I've been keeping her updated on the major changes going on so she doesn't have to. She told me reading everything has her completely overwhelmed. She picked well for their ADRs and made sure to make them at 180. At least I've taught her 1 good thing!

 

[SadieDog]

Good morning. It's going to be in the 30's/40's all week and 10-20 tonight. Our taste of warmth is gone. I look forward to seeing green and leaves again. Everything is so drag and brown. The grass is starting to green up a bit though.

kwitch, good luck with the painting. Have fun making the autograph books. I'd imagine she's happy to have your help.

 

[SadieDog]

It's raining here this morning and while I have no idea what the temp is, my heater just kicked in. First time in over a week! Blah. On the flip side, I'm looking out my window and noticing that all the yards around here are suddenly green!! Gotta love that.

I'm making beef tips in the crock pot today. Good day for it. Might make some bread too. It's that kind of day.

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It rained here yesterday and is pretty gray this morning. I'm so looking forward to leaves and green. Mmmmm the smell of fresh baked bread.

 

[LegoMom3]

I don't have any real close friends who do this, but I always cringe when I hear of an acquaintance or family member who thinks they know what they need to know to take a first trip to WDW in a crowded season. Then you wonder why you had such a less-than-magical trip! When I was at my current work the last time (prior to our move), the son of the owners was going on his first trip. It ended up being ok, and he did ask me for [some] advice, but was wondering things like walking from here to there.....I had to reiterate, the place is 47 square miles!!! There are very few places you walk between! Oy....

Weather has turned cold and carpy. It's spitting rain this morning. Blah. The trees are budding, though! Won't be long, and despite this cold snap, it's still going to green up ahead of schedule.

Meanwhile, it's another Monday. Poo. I don't like Mondays. I think we should all work Wed. and Thurs., get paid for a full 40, and call it done.

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[SadieDog]

I don't have any real close friends who do this, but I always cringe when I hear of an acquaintance or family member who thinks they know what they need to know to take a first trip to WDW in a crowded season. Then you wonder why you had such a less-than-magical trip! When I was at my current work the last time (prior to our move), the son of the owners was going on his first trip. It ended up being ok, and he did ask me for [some] advice, but was wondering things like walking from here to there.....I had to reiterate, the place is 47 square miles!!! There are very few places you walk between! Oy....

Weather has turned cold and carpy. It's spitting rain this morning. Blah. The trees are budding, though! Won't be long, and despite this cold snap, it's still going to green up ahead of schedule.

Meanwhile, it's another Monday. Poo. I don't like Mondays. I think we should all work Wed. and Thurs., get paid for a full 40, and call it done.

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Excellent idea.....with benefits of course.

 

[SadieDog]

It's spitting snow outside.

 

[creativeamanda]

Not a busy day, eh?

Well, I talked to my principal. You all were right--she's upset she's losing me. She said it is impossible to find someone who can do the job I do. It's all good. I made one concession that made her happy--I'm not giving up cheerleading, so she does not have to worry about replacing that. I found someone for her for my other team leadership. So, all we gotta do is find someone to take my teaching duties. And I have someone coming to observe me Wednesday who would be a perfect fit. She's a lot like me in her focus.