I have two boys who are mildly on the spectrum and they sound exactly like your GERLD/CAPD child. I've never even heard of those disorders! My one child got "aspergers probable" and the other one got "mild autism". Both have come so far that nobody notices their differences! (But, they still struggle with hidden issues) Both are very similiar and both had speech/language delays.
I wish there was a blood test for these kiddos! It would make diagnosis so much easier!
The week my son got an autism diagnosis my friend took her son (same age) to the same doctor and got language delay. Fast forward a few years and mine is getting straight A's in school and blends in w/peers while her's has to have an aide because his now diagnosed autism is so severe!![]()
With what I learned doing tons and tons of research and talking to lots of professionals, I would never trust a doctor that gave a "mild" or probable autism diagnosis. There is nothing in the DSM IV that indicates autism is anything but severe. My son's behaviors never moved beyond moderate even in the social skill area.
I did tons and tons of research. We first though he could be hyperlexic (he taught himself to read at age 2 and was completely obsessed with numbers and letters). That was quickly ruled out because he read for comprehension (which ruled out hyperlexia). Autism was ruled out as well (after the developmental ped spent 5 minutes with him, had him interact very well, said he "could" be pdd-nos but not enough to bother with labeling him.. we kept looking) by a psychiatrist and later by a neuropsych. The psychiatrist dx the MERLD and ADHD-HI, the neuropsych agreed with the assessment (confirming the dxs) and then told us there is something else that they couldn't put their finger on. By then we were already suspecting CAPD due to his behaviors. These included things like insisting we said one workd when we said something completely different and not remotely even like the word he thought we said (ex: royal tree lane he would insist was pine tree lane), his inability to repeat things that were from a non-pure source (ie tv, radio, telephone), his inability to talk on a phone (he would just continue to say what what what or not respond like no one ever said anything), acting deaf in loud or crowded places, the significant language testing results we got based on where the tests where done (test done in single room with no one walking in the halls and no background noise = 6 month or less delay, testing done at school with kids making noise in hall, background noise = 18-24 month delays) . The scary thing about the speech/language results were the three tests that were done (one showed 18-24 month delay both rec/exp, one showed 0-6 month delay, exp only one showed 12 month delay both) were all done within 60 days of each other!
During the neuropsych testing, his autism checklist scores were WAY below even concern level (even by the sped teachers who really thought he was going to get an autism label). Concern level was around 100 with dx closer to 120, he was in the 70's across the board.
He's always going to be socially awkward (but so is his mom) and uncomfortable in social situations (again me!) but that is just as much a function of his personality as anxiety. But it's not severe, it doesn't interfere with his life.
The one left over of both the CAPD and the MERLD we have been dealing with is reading comprehension. It still lags way behind both his reading level and his working IQ, but it is catching up each year. His rushing through everything doesn't help either LOL