We did both for DD our first trip. I will break them down seperately for you so it makes sense. (sometimes I ramble)
The tea party was in the place where 1900 park fare is (1900 park fare is being refurbished so I am not sure where it will be right now) We dropped off DD, they sat at the table (hint if your child is outgoing sit them toward a table end, dd wasnt so sure so she sat 2nd out from a table end) and waved goodbye to the adults, we were given a pager and shooed out.
To kill time Dh and I had a drink and snack at the GF pool bar and wandered around the resort. We picked her up, she had a surprise for us and a photo they had taken.
DD loved it, she still jokes about the mad hatter and how crazy he is. She would go back in a heart beat. It looks like they may have decorated and eaten cupcakes for thier party.
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The Perfectly Princess tea party, also at the GF. I was so excited to book and do this. DD loves Aurora, it is her fav. princess. We dressed her up in her aurora dress and set out. After checking in you wait for her name to be called and she is "crowned" princess. Then you are seated and Brian Rose entertians you. The food was okay, nothing to write home about but okay. The problem I ran into here is that DD remembers her manners, she waits patiently to meet Aurora, etc. Several other kids were so pushy that is was hard for all the kids to hang with Aurora untill she came around to each table to see each girl. We also got a charm braclet, doll and flower. We then went to the gift shop to adopt the doll. I would say there was around 15-20 girls there, plus a parent. Aurora only comes out the last 30 min. She dances with the kids, tours around the place. So maybe it was 2 min tops alone with Aurora, it was sign the book, smile for the picture, next!
It wasnt in my mind as good as I had thought it would be, it just wasnt worth the $200+ that I paid for it. DD hasnt really mentianed it since, but she does talk about the alice tea party.
So spend the $28 for the tea party and take your DD to Akerhaus to meet Aurora for a meal, the princess party wasnt worth it for us.