Well there is good news, he called to apologize. No one said anything to him about me being mad, he figured it out on his own. He said that he was kidding but realized that it might not have felt that way to me.

He said that he is envious of me because I get to stay home with my kids and he knows that he will never be able to do that. Yep, he has said before if he could be a stay-at-home dad he would do it in a heart beat. So I feel better now.
Thank you all, dear friends, for your support! You are the bestest friends a girl could have!