Lumpy1106
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Jul 2, 2010
Title says it all. Personally, my grandparents were better than our parents have been. Could be we just had kids later in life. Still, I remember frequently spending whole weeks with my grandparents so my parents could go on vacation, and we lived hours away. I can count on one hand the number of times DW and I have been able to get away for a weekend, and we live about 10 miles from my DM, and it's not an option at all since DD passed away. DM is always saying that she wants to help with the kids, but it is always on her terms and we really can't count on her. Kids are kindof a full-time gig and we can't work around her schedule - surprised she does not know that. I thought it was just me, but older DB said the same thing when his kids were younger.
It's fine, not complaining, not even looking for advice - just wondering if it's a generational thing.
It's fine, not complaining, not even looking for advice - just wondering if it's a generational thing.