I am reluctantly hosting Easter for DHs family and my Mom. It seems like we host 80%+ of the holidays. On my side, I have a brother and his wife who are wonderful at inviting us and taking turns hosting. They are having their children and grandchildren this year so they are all set, but I always ask them just in case they have no plans. On DHs side, one brother and his wife will occassionally offer to host and they did this time. They have both been out of work and he is recovering from surgery though, so I didn't want to burden them. His other brother and his wife never invite us over, holidays or otherwise, and I keep waiting for them to take their turn. Out of the three wives, I am the only one who works and would be a really nice gesture if somebody else could organize a gathering for once. On top of hosting the holidays, we host at least one or two pool parties a year, too.
As for the menu, I am keeping it pretty basic, ham, mashed potatoes, homemade cole slaw, a couple of other veggies. I may ask them to bring appetizers. I will make a French silk pie and a bunny cake for dessert.