A lot of your prices listed here are higher than reality, so there's that. I was just there in May and am going back next month. Even if your prices were accurate, why would you pay for anything you don't want? Disney can be very affordable with effort. Here are my tips: annual passes allow you to book 2 (or more) trips in a 365 day period. By choosing one week for the beginning of your pass and then go a week earlier the next year, you save money over booking 2 separate trips. A pass is cheaper than buying 3 day park-hoppers for 2 trips. We threw in a third trip since we take 2 vacations per year. With the passes, it made it cheaper to go to Disney in the spring than to go anywhere else. Because of our pass, we got a discount on our room in the spring (my first time staying on property) and paid $85/night for the room. Because of the Magical Express and transport services, we did not have to rent a car. For the first trip on our passes, we stayed off property bc we had an amazing deal. Parking is included in the pass. We also have a Tables in Wonderland card and get a discount on table service meals. For our last trip, we purchased the dining plan (I did the math given our plans and it saved us about $200). We always take snacks into the park with us. We carried bottled water in the fall and took filter bottles in the spring and filled them with free water. We carry a cooler bag on the bottom of our stroller and take everything we need for our family of 4.
For our upcoming trip, we are staying on property and got a free dining plan. In addition to that, we are doing a couple of extra table services meals, including a dinner show, the last Halloween Party, the first Christmas Party, and my daughter is paying a visit to the Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique. We do A LOT. How much is this all costing? Our full budget, all in, including all of the above, Memory Maker, and additional spending money, comes to $75 per person per day. This includes the percentage of our annual passes that we will use on this trip since I consider that our ticket cost. Sesame Place costs us much more and is about 5% of the fun. When you put in effort, Disney CAN be affordable. For our annual passes, our ticket costs have come out to $26/day. It all depends on how much you want it and how much work you're willing to put in to have the vacation you want.
I will leave you with this: Before
Disneyland, what small theme parks did exist did not charge admission at all. People told Walt that by charging admission (I think it was 10 cents when they opened?), he was ensuring that Disneyland would be a huge failure and he would lose his shirt. They were clearly wrong. People are packing in to Disney and the park already reaches capacity some days. If prices were super cheap, it would do so much more often. It would be much more expensive to pay to travel to Disney and then not be able to get in at all. If tickets were $20, no one would be able to get in by 10am. If you don't want to pay the prices, don't. But don't get mad that other people see value in it that you don't. You are entitled to do what you'd like with your money, the rest of us can do what we'd like with ours, and Disney, as a business, will price for profit. I'm sure their stockholders appreciate it.