Just a question, what kind of teacher are you?
Regular classroom teacher -- high school level, having taught Inclusion classes for many years. Plenty of IEPs, loads of 504s. Lots of experience in that field.
...and that's why you really can't know if your child is average or gifted without a battery of normative IQ tests.
Disagree. Tests may be more precise, but it's not hard to figure out roughly where student fall - especially if they're your own and you live with them every day.
No, kids in our district have IEPs due to neurological and behavioral conditions. Many kids have IEPs under OHI (Other Health Impairment), which is what the kids with ADHD fall under. They can get the IEPs for that alone, without any learning disabilities.
Other Health Impaired kids do get 504s. For example, I had a kid a couple years ago who was very intelligent -- one of the good students who grew up with all the educational advantages that come with college-educated parents and an enriched environment -- but he was progressively losing his hearing. He went on to a prestigious college, though I don't remember what he studied. When he was in my class, he could still hear, although he had a hearing aid. He knew that the day would come that the hearing aid would become useless. His 504 said one thing: He sits on the front row of class. Common sense.
In fact, as a classroom teacher, I always take things like that as a bit of an insult. Why do I need a piece of paper and a committee to order me to sit the kid with hearing problems on the front row? Am I too stupid to realize his need? Or do they think I'm such a monster that I'd purposefully put him in the back? Is his mother too stupid to email me before the semesters begins to tell me that he has a special need? Things on this level really should just be left to the individual people involved.
And -- getting back to your comment -- learning disabilities are just one thing that IEPs cover.
I think this post is important to note. I see it in the classroom all the time. Some kids just have "that" personality that allows them to be easily picked on. My oldest daughter had tons of friends, was smart, firendly, etc. However, she was picked on because her jeans had creases from when I ironed them. I kid you not! If a kid wants to pick on another kid there will always be a reason.
You're right. "That" personality sort of crumples when picked on, which eggs on the antagonists. And it can be anything -- something as silly as whether her jeans are ironed. Once my daughter was picked on because her socks covered her ankles, and she begged me to buy her socks two inches shorter. It doesn't get much more foolish than that.
Average kids are still out there, disguised as "gifted." The problem is that teachers don't want to tell overprotective parents that their kids are morons (or even slightly less than average).
It comes along with the "everyone gets a soccer trophy" generation. We don't want to hurt anyone's feelings -- so we let them grow up thinking this way, and then the real world slaps them in the face.