I get that going from resort to tesort can be a pain. And maybe Disney should consider setting up a shuttle service to help guests with this problem. But how can you sit here and say waiting for a Disney bus drove you up a wall when you're exhausted, when it has to be just as exhausting waiting in lines, and dealing with people just to make it back to your car? And even once you get to your car, you have to drive back yourself to either your resort or offsite hotel. I'd rather have a short walk to the bus stops, wait a little, and have someone drive me back to my resort, rather than going though all the trouble of finding your way back to your car, and driving home yourself. But that's just my opinion.
All I know is I've done both, and I prefer having a car.
Disney does an exemplary job with their transportation. Really, they do. I prefer having a car, though. Plenty of others do too. I have read numerous posts on these boards advising even onsite people to drive to the parks (except MK) rather than rely on Disney transportation.
I GET that some don't feel the same. You, in particular, don't feel the same.
However, to reiterate. I've done both, and I prefer having a car. The implication in your post is that I'm making this up. It's how I feel. Why would I make it up?
Regarding "waiting in lines, and dealing with people just to make it back to [my] car", I don't have to wait in lines or deal with people to make it back to my car. As far as lines or people in the parks, often we push ourselves to the limits in the parks. We do wait and we do walk and we wear ourselves out. At the point when we cry "uncle" and want to take a break, standing for 30 minutes at the bus stop waiting for a bus to go back to the resort seems interminable. That's just me. You don't have to feel the same. But please don't assume I'm lying or crazy. It's how I feel.
As far as "hav[ing] someone drive me back to my resort" vs. "driving myself home", I personally don't find the short drive back to my offiste resort exhausting or taxing in any way. I understand some find a 5-10 minute drive to be less than pleasant. I can't really fathom why that would be the case, but I don't doubt that people are being truthful. FWIW, I am a control freak, and being at the mercy of others drives me crazy. I CAN'T control the lines in the parks or the people with the stroller in front of me, but I CAN control being able to come and go from the parks when I see fit.
I have done both, and I strongly prefer having a car. If I were to stay onsite tomorrow, and truly, I consider it all the time, we would drive to all parks except MK and we would certainly drive to resorts for ADRs. Scout's honor.