Anyone else watching The Bachelorette?

[Robinrs]

 

[madge]

I think the producers had to tell him to ask her dad. Since both Deanna and her dad said that they expected that, the producers prompted him to ask at the second family gathering.

that's been widely speculated (if not confirmed) over at the FORT, too.

 

[happygirl]

My sentiments EXACTLY!!!

Boy for someone who hated this show so much you sure watched alot of it


I really wanted Jason to win, but when I watched last night show I could tell in the editing that it was going to be Jesse in the end.

As for you all that say poor Ty, He'll be fine I'm sure when Ty meet De. All they told him that was a friend of Jason, They said last night that De and Jesse would be all be friends

 

[MaryAnnDVC]

Boy for someone who hated this show so much you sure watched alot of it

 

[Robinrs]

Boy for someone who hated this show so much you sure watched alot of it

Yep, trainwreck that I was addicted to... no about it....

 

[Teacher03]

The truth is we really don't know Jesse or Deanna or anybody on reality TV. We just are shown bits and pieces of what the producers or whoever wants us to see. It always surprises me when someone mentions that someone was lead on, etc. It's the premise of the show! There are always two left at the end and only one can be chosen. Everyone that signs on for the show knows that, everyone watching the show knows that, and then everyone is so surprised and saddened and sometimes outraged that their favorite wasn't the one. Myself included; I was upset for days about the last bachelor!

 

[JBurke]

Gosh-I hope Jeremy isnt the next Bachelor.
He is okay looking, but I just never saw much of a personality. Like Twilly joked, he pretty much was a robot. He seemed pretty boring to me.

Anyone notice how mad DeAnna got last night on the After The Rose special when Jason said he wished she looked at him the way she looked at Graham. She didnt look to happy to have him bring up her feelings for Graham. Maybe its a sore issue with Jesse??

 

[dzneelvr]

The absolute kicker for me last night was how honestly in love and giddy Jessie and Deanna were with each other sheesh...I remember how it felt to fall in love with DH and exactly the same things: you couldn't wipe the grin off your face, your palms sweat, your stomach had butterflies in it whenever you saw/thought about him, you just wanted to stare in each others eyes I truly truly saw in Jessie and Dee a very happy ending for them They look like a wonderful couple The Final Rose show was awesome for once

 

[Mayra]

Just my opinion:

I really don't understand why some people think Jason was lead on. Why? because she kept him on the show until the end and he has a child? because she always said he was everything that she was looking for and didn't pick him at the end?

1. Nobody forced Jason to be on the show, and everybody including Jason knew that only one of the bachelors will win.

2. To be in love with someone and to really like someone and think he would be perfect for you it's not the same. In real life when you meet someone and he is everything you're looking for and you really like that person you date that person and try the best you can to fall in love. If that doesn't work you end that relationship, sadly, to realize that you won't fall in love takes time and even more time when you really want that relationship to work. We can not choose who to fall in love with. If that was the case the divorce rate will be lower.

3. I think Ty will be fine, she only meet De once. If people want to blame someone because they think Ty will be hurt then that person would be Jason (hey, i don't blame him) not DeAnna. The reason i say this it's because i'm a single mother, my son knows that i date but i would never bring someone home to meet him unless i feel sure the relationship will last. Yeah, i know. People will say you can't predict if a relationship will last, you're right. The fact that i can't predict what will happen in a relationship doesn't mean i'm going to expose my son to every man i date. The responsibility with this kind of situation is from the parent, not the person you're dating ( at least at the beginning)


that's it. i think that's all i wanted to say. just my opinion

 

[N&B'smom]

Then, why didn't he ask at the first gathering when he spent time with her dad?

Probably because he felt WAY more comfortable the next time they spoke. The first situation he was EXTREMELY nervous. I can't blame him for not asking at that point.

I'm in the minority because I'm very happy with the outcome. I actually would have been happy either way. But I did kind of like Jesse a bit more. I liked him because he was different and seemed very genuine.

I would love it if Jason was the next Bachelor, not interested in Jeremy at all. I just never really cared for him.

Shelby

 

[mamajoan]

I liked Jason and I liked Jesse.... I was glad to see Jesse and DeAnna together at the end. My heart was sad that Jason did not go home with a girl on his arm.
Jesse is a cool guy.. quirky-handsome, modern, athletic, curious--- kinda guy
Jason is a handsome-classic, athletic, father ----kinda guy.... jmho

I thought it to be a very observant statement when Jason said to D. ' You never looked at me the way you looked at Jesse or the way you looked at Graham'..... he was right...

alls well that ends well.... May everone enjoy a life time of happiness!

 

[dairyou]

I liked Jason and I liked Jesse.... I was glad to see Jesse and DeAnna together at the end. My heart was sad that Jason did not go home with a girl on his arm.
Jesse is a cool guy.. quirky-handsome, modern, athletic, curious--- kinda guy
Jason is a handsome-classic, athletic, father ----kinda guy.... jmho

I thought it to be a very observant statement when Jason said to D. ' You never looked at me the way you looked at Jesse or the way you looked at Graham'..... he was right...

alls well that ends well.... May everone enjoy a life time of happiness!

Jesse reminds me of my 16 year old. Of course Jesse is very much more mature, but the hand gestures, having fun boarding, ect. He seems like a free spirit at heart. In the show after the finale Deanna said she wasn't so grown up and mature so she was wondering why she would pick a guy who had his life together. I guess she and Jesse will fit well. I like what her sister in law said about fast forwarding 5 years if she was with Jason. At some point I guess she figured out that's not what she was really looking for.

Either way I guess the future will show if this is another failed arrangement...lol

 

[F1Julie]

I think Jesse and Deanna will be broken up by September, or by the first snowfall at the latest. They'll never make it to May 9. Deanna's sister was right on when she said by choosing Jason, Deanna's life would fast forward 5 years. By choosing Jesse, I think she just stepped back 5 years. He just doesn't seem very mature. He reminds me more of a guy in high school or college. Jeremy seemed to be at the same point in life as Deanna - good job, nice house but no relationship baggage (aside from losing his parents).

Neither Jason or Jesse seemed to be right for her. I'm glad she picked Jesse though so at least Ty will be spared from having Deanna become a big part of his life and then have her leave.

I heard the next Bachelor will be Paula Abdul's ex. I can't remember his name, but it is so initials (JT maybe?) and his last name is long and starts with a G. He's in the restaurant business.

 

[Biscuitsmom31]

I'm ashamed to say that I am dissappointed that the show is over. I don't remember when I've been so addicted to one of these silly shows!

 

[Wishing on a star]

Now that all is said and done, and with much afterthought... here is my take.

I do not think that it was quite the unexpected 'shocker' that she chose Jesse. When you think about it, Whenever Deanna was out being active, and looking at the date activities that she chose, she really is a lot like Jesse at heart.. She blew the guys out of the water at the racing, and ATV'ing, etc...

I think that DeAnna has a dual personality that she needs to come to terms with... On the one hand, we see the more mature and collected DeAnna, wearing some awesome dresses, etc.... In this show, I think we saw way too much of that, and not the 'real' DeAnna... the one who wants to go crazy on ATVs, ride down the side of the mountain on her man's shoulders, dive with sharks...

IMHO, DeAnna needs to come to terms with these self identity issues, and DeAnna really needs a man who can click with BOTH sides of her!!! And unfortunately, that was not there on the show. The last of the men standing were either 100% one side (Jeremy and Jason with the maturity and refinement, but lacking the physcal fun loving side... or Jesse with the physical fun loving side, but lacking any refinement or maturity...)

I really like Jesse!!!! But, I am afraid that they might not make it because I am not sure that DeAnna will be able to base her life on ONLY the immature fun-loving aspects... One day, and one day VERY soon, she is going to want a home, child(ren), etc... I am not so sure that Jesse is ready or able to deliver. Now, I LOVE Jesse!!! But, just kind of stating my observations and feelings!!!

 

[Diva of Dragons]

I think Jesse's maturity level might be getting a bit of a bad rap. He said, fairly early on, that he had been really focused on making money now because he had a hard-working but absent father. Jesse said he wants to be a young dad who is physically, not just financially, there for his kids.

I think he has a little trouble verbally expressing himself, which makes him sound immature. But, I believe there is more forethought and planning there than they really allowed us to see.

I agree with you, "wishing on a star", about DeAnna's personality. But, to her credit, she did say on "After the Final Rose", that she found out she didn't know herself as well as she thought she did going into it. Let's face it. Who does know at 26? I got married at that age....veeeerrry different person now, on several points!

They definitely have a spark that I haven't seen in most of the other Bachelor/ette! (ie..It looked like Shayne has no patience with Matt, during their little appearance...LOL!)

I hope it works, as long as they are happy!

 

[LVSWL]

Jeremy was there to WIN, and I think he would've been that way no matter WHO was the bachelorette. I seriously doubt if he was "in love", I think he just wanted to win.




I agree with this. While Jeremy might be a nice guy, he just seemed to me to be playing the part, saying all the right things that he thought he should say. I would rather take a guy with a case of the nerves than a smooth operator.

 

[chisnpeke]

Hi ladies. I thought I would let you know in this week's Us Weekly magazine it says that Jeremey is dating the Bachelor: London Calling finalist Chelsea Wanstrath and he said "It's perfect so far!"

 

[RUDisney]

IMHO, DeAnna needs to come to terms with these self identity issues, and DeAnna really needs a man who can click with BOTH sides of her!!! And unfortunately, that was not there on the show. The last of the men standing were either 100% one side (Jeremy and Jason with the maturity and refinement, but lacking the physcal fun loving side... or Jesse with the physical fun loving side, but lacking any refinement or maturity...)

Refinement and maturity will come in time, if it truly isn't there already. You can't teach someone to be fun-loving, but a person can learn how to be refined. While Jesse isn't probably the most comfortable in a suit, he carried himself well while he was in one. In order for him to be running the non-profit for poor kids who want to snowboard, he has to have some level of maturity that we were not shown on the program.

 

[Wishing on a star]

Excellent thoughts RUdisney!

I do have to say that I just couldn't get over that 'deer caught in the headlights' look that Jesse had on his face sometimes....

Did you all see the latest quote from DeAnna... It was featured on Yahoo (i think) yesterday...

She really defended her and Jesse's relationship against all the online doubters and nay-sayers!!! So, that sounds good!