My brother has been sick with acute pancreatitus(sorry if spelling is wrong) and has been having a hard time working with it, and said he is so far behind on his bills he will have to sell his house soon. When he found out I was going to Disney World again (I got free tickets and free dining - so its just the price of the room, rental car and air) he started screaming into the phone at me this morning. I work very hard, to support my family, I am the only income and we have known hard times. I am frugal to a fault on so many things. I have my own problems to deal with and I dont think I put them off on anyone else... I am only going because I got an extra little kaching for doing something wonderful at work the day I found the deal.
And I heard myself apologizing. But all day my tummy has been twisted over this... I don't think I can really help him financially - when it comes right down to it, my monthly expenses couldnt handle his crisis (this is just the current one, he always has some crisis).
I should note my mom always makes me apologize for going on vacation and my one sister makes me feel bad about it too.
Why? And after today, I feel like I should never share my happiness - because they end up being mad at me.
Anyone else out there made to feel bad about going on vacation?
And I heard myself apologizing. But all day my tummy has been twisted over this... I don't think I can really help him financially - when it comes right down to it, my monthly expenses couldnt handle his crisis (this is just the current one, he always has some crisis).
I should note my mom always makes me apologize for going on vacation and my one sister makes me feel bad about it too.
Why? And after today, I feel like I should never share my happiness - because they end up being mad at me.
Anyone else out there made to feel bad about going on vacation?
