Disnee Dad Says............................................Don'y worry about it.
You need to plan a little but you will have a great time, it is nothing like summer.
To avoid the crowds for the masters art thingy at DTD, just don't go down there that weekend.
To avoid the crowds for the soaps at MGM, just don't go there that same weekend.
Jersey week is real, it does add people to the crowds, but they are all gone by Veterans Day.
The crowds will still not be that bad, but I would plan your good meals in the first five days, use FP as much as you can the first five days. When lines are longer, eat! When lines are shorter, ride!
Shock, go to EPCOT on the busy weekend! Just arrive early and eat when the poeple don't. Hit all the food stands in the first couple hours, then do it again before the dinner crowd hits.
We did this last trip, at the same time of year. Hit 4-5 stands as soon as it opened, then 4-5 more before 5pm. Not a cheap way to go, but we got to try many different foods and not wait in long lines. Try new things!!! Go for it!
The best part, and use this wisely, is that from 11/12 to 11/16, the parks will be dead, empty. You can do every ride in fantasyland in 45 minutes, if you are there when it opens. Then go to SM and wait for as long as 6 minutes.