Maybe this is incredibly selfish but I really didn't fret too much about the at home reception. I picked a place that did almost everything--centerpieces, linens, dj, etc and just let it roll. The only thing I fretted about were the table assignments and favors. In the end I wish I had just done standard lame favors or none at all. We had considered a donation favor, but in the end just bought some candles. I contemplated a "renewal" so everyone who missed it could see it...but I really didn't want that. We just made sure to get our photo disc from Randy on our honeymoon and showed it when we got home at the reception. I really focused my attention on the Disney event...and as many of you noted, they do most of it for you!!