diswedwish & maidmarion -
I felt the same way about the 'face' characters at first & DH definitely wanted no part of it. I wanted to have breakfast in the castle for so long, but was a little leery of it, fearing it would be a bit awkward/strange. How silly that was!!
So far, we've done the breakfast 3 times & will be returning this October. As a matter of fact, it's hubby's favorite meal. (hmmm...I can't imagine why it's the ONE place he always wants his picture taken - with Jasmine! lol)
Anyway, each of the princesses (as well as Prince Charming, Peter Pan, etc) always come right over, prepared with conversation - there's nothing strange or awkward about it - as a matter of fact, I find this meal to be the most 'magical!' Go and have fun! You'll love it!