Meesh Yea go figure. I lived with my first wife for 2 years in college, married her and then was divorced 8 months later (Still not sure what happened there). I then found DW, lived to gether for 1 month and we have been together ever since. There is no such thing as a perfect marriage. Every one has its ups and downs especially if you are both fairly independent and my DW is. Have to allow each room to grow and make mistakes - It's part of life. She is however the "Perfect" woman for me. - Mike