You are considering Punta Cana, Cancun or the Bahamas?
different as night and day. Punta Cana has no sightseeing or
activity outside of the beach basically. It's beautiful and possibly
boring but with a four year old, boring could be fantastic.
I prefer the Mexican riviera to Cancun. Akumal is my personal
favorite. There are several resorts down that far now so you
could easily charter into Cancun and get down there. The snorkeling possibilities are wonderful but a 4 year old could
put a damper on those unless you had a nanny or a resort
with a child's program you were comfortable with.
I don't like much about the Bahamaian resort areas. I find
the tourist cost high priced and the service not so great. Atlantis
(the resort) is one exception but still not fabulous.
My favorite, like other posters, are the Virgin Islands. I love
St. John!!!! We stay at Maho Bay but it's not good for really
little ones as it's covered with stairs on a hillside and the
bathrooms are shared, communal. Maybe a few years from
now. Caneel Bay is a wonderful luxury resort on the island
and there are amazing home rentals-really amazing! The small,
hard to reach beaches are fabulous, the water is clear and
the snorkeling is incomparable. Water Lemon Cay in Leinster
Bay during a starfish migration-OMG! When DS was 2, we rented
a marvelous home and took my DS with us as an extra hand.
It was during Hale Bop, great sunsets every night and night time
comet shows....beyond compare. DH and I once spent 8 hours
in the water with a short beach lunch. We carry Meals Ready to
Eat which are sealed in a tow bag and look for each and every
octopuses garden we can find!!
I'm gonna start making reservations tomorrow!
Have fun!
mimi