My parents are both native (Italian) New Yorkers & so I visit 2-3 times a year

Our city favorites include:
-Carmines: Italian family style, incredible food
-Junior's: supposedly their cheesecake is to die for! (I'm not a cheesecake fan but the food there is great)
-5 Napkin Burger: We ALWAYS go here. There's not a bad thing on the menu!

-Katz: We went here last time after we decided that the Carnegie Deli was getting too expensive. It was super.
-Ellen's Stardust Diner: The food is only satisfactory, but the entertainment is worthwhile.
While themed restaurants liked Mars & Jekyll & Hyde have cool themes the food is nothing special.
Sadly enough, the best NY pizza is out on the island (LI) & the best steak & Italian restaurants are in Brooklyn. If you're willing to take the drive one night, I highly recommend Embers Steakhouse or New Corners restaurant in Brooklyn. Embers consistently serves excellent steak & New Corners has the best Italian food (coming from an Italian family).
The pizza in the city will range from okay-pretty good, depending on where you go. Just beware of bad chains or tourist-filled places that are no different than pizza anywhere else.
Have fun
