I'm an American currently living in Switzerland with my family and have been to DLP twice this year. One time we drove from Zurich area and stayed offsite at the Dream Castle and the second time we took the fast train into Paris and stayed at the Sequoia Lodge. I did not use DVC points because with a family of four it made more sense to buy a Disney package with tickets then to use DVC points and buy length of stay tickets.
We are driving to the South of France next week for Spring break, so I can let you know how that goes later.
A few thoughts:
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Disneyland Paris is a beautiful park. I love the park entrance and the arcades on Main Street (indoor walkways with shops and exhibits, not video games) . The castle with a fire breathing dragon in the dungeon is awesome. Pirates of the Caribbean is very cool, though backwards in good way. The Haunted Mansion is much creepier and scarier. And Thunder Mountain has its own island! For the Disney geek, there are so many touches that Disneyland Paris has done just right. And our experience with cast members on both trips was only positive. Still doesn't hold a candle to DL in California, but what could...
2. I think that the Sequoia Lodge may be a disappointment if you are expecting a Grand Californian or Wilderness Lodge kind of experience. Price is similar, but the overall lodge doesn't compare. Not eyes up jaws down lobby. Rooms are a bit run down. Service isn't four star (it is a three star hotel): no bell service, no room service and you have to pay for WIFI. There is a nice breakfast buffet included and the walk to the parks isn't bad. If money were no object, I would hands down try Disneyland Hotel. I haven't yet, but really hope to in the future.
3. Disability parking: I think I read somewhere that there is in fact disability parking in Disneyland Paris. However, I must say that Europe in general (and in Paris the city in particular) is more difficult to navigate when it comes to mobility issues. I would definitely recommend doing homework beforehand.
4. Go for it! We have been exploring Europe this year and really loving it. It takes a bit of work and things are very expensive here, but it is so worth it. Good luck planning your trip. Sounds like you have a spirit for adventure!