I go to Busch Gardens very often. It has been named the “most beautiful theme park” for 27 years. It has very pretty landscaping and I find the different areas nicely themed.
I really enjoy the shows.
There are some great coasters, but also plenty of non coasters.
A few things that are different from Disney parks:
Right now there are no metal detectors to enter (there could be by next year, though). However, they do check bags, and they don’t want you to bring food in. You can bring in bottled water. They allow food brought in for small kids though.
If you ride any coasters, or the VR ride, you cannot carry any bag on with you. If your wife isn’t riding, she can hold things if necessary, otherwise riders are required to get a locker.
There is no hotel “on site” that is easy walking distance to the park
(As far as I know) but as ccvb mentioned, Kingsmill is close and has a shuttle. Holiday Inn Express, Courtyard, and Doubletree are right next to the park- have not stayed there but they look nice to me. If you go 10-15 minutes from the park, you have tons of hotel choices.
There is a meal plan that I hear is a great deal- I have never done this, because I never stay all day. But you may want to look into it.
I don’t know that much about actual tickets, since I have annual pass. I do know that depending on the ticket, and how you buy it, you may need to visit a teller window or self-service kiosk when you arrive, or you may be able to go straight to the turnstile. Read the top of your ticket and it will tell you which”zone” to go to on arrival. They try to make it clear, but I know that it causes a lot of confusion.
Have fun!