Any advice or suggestions regarding-filing for the divorce on mon.

[Stepharoonie!]

Serena, just remember to keep everything either written down or typed if he causes you any problems. If he says anything mean or nasty to you, write it down and get it to your lawyer. I've had to do that. It's a pain, but it's worth it.

 

[hockeymom7691]

Serena,

It sounds like you're on the right track already! When I was thinking about getting a divorce (10 yrs ago), I did the same thing - opened my own checking account, credit card, etc. Once I started doing all of those things, I knew that I was on the right road. It's going to be a tough journey but you will have lots of support!

I have been divorced for 8 yrs now and I don't regret it.

Good luck and lots of prayers & hugs for you!!

You will survive!!

 

[KimRaye]

Originally posted by Serena
How come every time someone tells me I'm going to be ok, I cry?

Because you're scared and, understandably, emotional right now. You may not think it or know it but, you are already stronger since this started and, you've accomplished some big things that you previously didn't think you could do. Remember when you were afraid to look for work? Well, you found a job and have been working for how long now? BIG step! And, if this job ends sometime, you KNOW now you can find another, don't you?!

I know you'll be ok. (sorry if it makes you cry again)