I don't assume all people are incapable of realizing they should consult a Dr. We can get pregnancy tests anywhere now, at the dollar store even and can manage to know step 2 is talk to a Dr. DId you all miss that my Dr gave me a prescription for the test but not much on the brand to go with or how to make sure I get a good one? To be clear I am not confused over whether or not to do it, I KNOW I want to do it, what I was curious on is where to get the best test.
Can't explain how this waded into should or shouldn't without assigning it to angst because the should/shouldn't is not a 'Me problem." Again, this is very strange, to have answers for a question I don't have.