This is a drive by.
Megan, take care sweetie!!![]()
I wanted to share with you guys that my Sister who lives in Oregon, just called me this morning and told me that she has cervical and uteran cancer. So I am quite bummed.
Dave and I, along with my Mom, will be leaving next week to go and be with her during her surgery. We will be gone from Tuesday to Sunday. My Mom will stay behind longer to be with her.
Thanks for listening!
Melody

It is very good that you are going to be with her. But one bit of advice...try to treat her normal. When I was first diagnosed everyone didn't really know what to say or do, and even during treatment it was hard. But what I wanted most of all was for everyone to just treat me normal, for my life to be normal. Make sure to keep her busy, keep her laughing and don't treat her like she's an invalid. If she says she wants to do something then let her do it. Even doing simple household chores will help her feel normal.
She's going to have good and bad days, right now her brain is probably going non-stop just thinking about cancer and letting it sink in. Just be there for her, listen if she wants to talk, try to keep her busy, but most of all just love her.
