Again thanks for all the kind words. It's amazing how quickly your children go from baby to adulthood.
I talked with my future DIL yesterday and I am going to photograph the wedding for them. Actually I am going to photograph part of it. I am going to do all the pre-ceremony formals. Bride and groom, wedding party and family except for the ones with me in them. I've already enlisted the help of two friends to help photograph the wedding. One is a friend and hobbyist and the other is a retired photographer who worked with me at the newspaper. Once we get the formals completed, I will turn it over them and have them shoot the ceremony and reception.
I am a little apprehensive about turning the photography over to others, but I am just going to have to and trust that they will handle it.