Originally posted by SnackyStacky
Katie, unless they have AMAZING deals, after the honeymoon, the figurative honeymoon with Disney is over. I'm all about the bargain rates at the Hotel Plaza Blvd. hotels.
And to the Disney Resort fans, don't get me wrong, I've never been quite as excited about a trip as I am about this one. Not just because I'll be married, but because we're staying at the Animal Kingdom Lodge! But this will probably be the only "going-all-out" kind of trip for a while.
Dearest Snacky,
DTA does occasionally run some super deals, and the Dis is the place to find them. Also, I have mentioned this before, once your reservation is all set and the deposit (only) has been paid you can convert it to a Dis-Saver vacation and save close to 10% on everything you booked through DTA.
Being a Disney Resort Fan, I know the excitement you are feeling, and I think that you are a bit concerned that it will be a let-down from what you expect...something about wanting the honeymoon to be perfect.
From my experience the honeymoon won't be perfect, neither will the wedding. It will probably be darn close, but there will be a few minor glitches. What you need to realize is that in 10 years time (actually 2 months for us) you will be laughing at the things that seemed so randomly upsetting...With our wedding, a few of the problems were: The hotel gave away our bridal suite for the day before our wedding, so DW had no place for hair and makeup (they let her use another room). The Ice sculpture broke when the guests started arriving. They had another one in the back and brought it out before anyone who didn't see the implosion noticed. We had all of our guests sign the frame of our marriage contract (ketubah); We had archival pens for everyone to use..except one cousin who had to use his own penwith a different color ink. Our Wedding Coordinator even hid our Bride and Groom Mouse-Ears... My point is that there will be little things that go wrong but the evening as a whole will go perfectly because IT WILL BE YOUR WEDDING. YOU WILL BE GETTING THE WOMAN YOU LOVE FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. nothing else really matters.
As far as the honeymoon, there will be a random cast member that will mouse off to you (did I just create another quotable expression?) They may try and put you into a smoking room. The animals may boycott your view, or decide to mate in front of your window. It happens, and being in car #1, I generally deal with it; it's a lot more important on your honeymoon. These things add character to the trip; again in a few months you will find that these are the things that make your memories more vivid and fun.
OK, I am projecting myself, I think some of it is planning jitters. The honeymoon was all DW let me plan by myself for the wedding. She was constantly asking my opinion then doing what she wanted.
I also feel that you are afraid that you will like AKL and not be able to go back to the resort again. You will always call AKL your resort, and it will be a place that you will talk about going back to. Trust me on this,whether or not you ever go back to WDW AKL will be a special happy place for you. Honeymoons do that to you. Additionally, you at least have caught the Disney Bug. It has infected you and maybe you feel that she might not love Disney the same way you do. If she doesn't, you will make less trips but still visit.
Money seems to be a little tight right now, and you might be a little afraid of "Blowing a good chunk of your savings". What else do you save for? I don't think you are going into hock over this trip; it seems like you have carefully budgeted the trip and have/are saving the money to go. You would be surprised what so many couples do and how far into debt they let their wedding take them. Just imagine without the careful planning getting married and having a $20,000.00 debt to repay for the wedding and honeymoon. Again, you are probably spending a good amount of your savings, but you are young and have medical insurance (I hope) and will be able to come back many times.
The concept that you may never be able to stay on-site again without fabulous offers is not a good one; they do make some fabulous offers from time to. Also, Money won't always be so tight... But then again, lots of people love to stay off-site. I think if I had a choice between the All-Star and the Peabody...well I am not even going to admit that except in a PM

(They do have lots of busses going to the All-Star though).
Key Items: It will be the trip of a lifetime, and above all else you will be happily married to the love of your life.
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