MelanieC
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Well I knew it was too good to be true. Dh is completely out processed and finished work on Monday. He e-mailed about 5pm last night with bad news. They still don't have a plane and were told it would be at least another 5-10 days. That is what they said over 10 days ago.
I know I am truely lucky that he is coming home now, but I feel my feet were pulled out from under me. This waiting really sucks. I feel really bad evening being sad when others are not even close to be home. I guess it's just human nature.
Dh called last night. It was a pre-planned call, and he used a calling card. He talked for about 5 minutes and that was it. He was very depressed and wasn't responsive to the kids either. My 11 year old got off the phone and said he sounded "bad".
I am hoping that he gets some news that cheers him up tonight. I feel bad for him. I can imagine it is really tough not getting to see the kids. I just wish that there was something I could do. I hope he is doing better tonight when he calls.
Thanks for letting me have this space as a sounding board. It's really tough not having anyone to talk to about this.
Melanie
I know I am truely lucky that he is coming home now, but I feel my feet were pulled out from under me. This waiting really sucks. I feel really bad evening being sad when others are not even close to be home. I guess it's just human nature.
Dh called last night. It was a pre-planned call, and he used a calling card. He talked for about 5 minutes and that was it. He was very depressed and wasn't responsive to the kids either. My 11 year old got off the phone and said he sounded "bad".
I am hoping that he gets some news that cheers him up tonight. I feel bad for him. I can imagine it is really tough not getting to see the kids. I just wish that there was something I could do. I hope he is doing better tonight when he calls.
Thanks for letting me have this space as a sounding board. It's really tough not having anyone to talk to about this.
Melanie
Just focus on that he is READY and waiting to come home! It could happen anytime. I don't think we knew until the day before that it was finally a real "go"! Vent all you want.