What about the fact that after she married him she did not even live with him, and she continued to have boyfriends? And, I agree with you, to a point -IF he had named her in his will or trust, then fine - he chose to leave her the money, and even if his family doesn't agree, she shouldget what was left to her. BUT - if it is true that he did not name her in the will, even though he updated it after their marriage (which, to me, seems to negate any possible argument that he "meant" to include her & did not get to updating his will - if he updated it after their marriage & left her out,t hat seems intentional), than I don't think that she should be entitled to millions simply by virtue of their marriage.