Pea-n-Me
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Here, they're shooting themselves in the proverbial foot by making it so hard to adopt. The county shelter is the only one that doesn't want veterinary references and a home visit and fees of several hundred dollars, and even with all that a lot of them have rules about what kind of fencing is okay (we were disqualified by one for having chain link), whether or not they'll adopt to families with children, etc. Then they cry about being full and post fundraisers and Amazon wish lists, but those same rescues *race* to the county shelters to adopt pretty much any non-pit bull dogs that come in, supposedly out of concern for the county's less strenuous vetting of adopters.
I think my favorite was the one that wouldn't qualify us to adopt the dog we were interested in because we have small animals (rabbits & cats; the dog in question was a lab-shepherd mix and apparently those have to go to dogs-only households) but then turned around and asked if we'd be willing to foster. So our household is adequate to care temporarily for dogs of unknown temperament but not to add a "forever" member of the family? Or the one that hosts the vaccine clinic we use for our indoor cats but won't adopt to us because we use their clinic to keep their shots up-to-date rather than taking the cats for full physicals when their shots are due.
We're currently looking to adopt a second dog and the county shelter recently shared an adoptable dogs post with one that perfectly met our criteria... medium size, young but not puppy, female, and of a breed we're familiar with. But it was snatched up by a breed-specific rescue within minutes of the shelter opening the day after the post. Two days later, the same dog is up for adoption on the rescue's Petfinder page for $450 (vs. the $125 the county charges).
I can commiserate. For almost 20 yrs now I’ve had trouble getting a dog from rescues and we have the ideal home for one. I’ve found some of them to be super strict and almost militant at times.This has been my experience over the years too. Why are the "rescue" groups allowed to do this? It is absolutely impossible to adopt anything other than pit-bull mixes directly from the shelter where I live because of this. Call me cynical, but IMHO, this only benefits the "rescue" groups, and not the pets nor the people looking to adopt them. FWIW - we adopted our cats from the shelter, but went to a breeder to get our dog. We didn't want a pit bull and couldn't get the rescue group to respond to our requests, and yes, this has happened multiple times over decades.
I won’t go into all the details as they’re too long, but some of our experiences include: our kids weren’t age 7 yet (they were five months shy); the dog was long adopted before they got back to me (often); they wouldn’t speak to me or answer questions unless I filled out a whole application (filled out about 60 or 70); once we had to leave a dog there that we about to go home with when it bit my older dog in the face, twice; we were lied to about whether a particular dog had lap aggression, thankfully the foster mom pulled my DH aside and told us the truth (the last two being little dog potential adoptions).My niece adopted what she was told was a Lab that turned out to be mostly pit bull. (I could tell right away when I saw the dog and I imagine the shelter knew, too.) I had two sets of wheels I offered to let the rescue use and they never even responded back to me. The one I had the most trouble with was frustratingly difficult to deal with over email, it was like they were being deliberately obtuse. (Maybe they didn’t want to deal with me, idk; that’s all I could think of. For instance I said I was interested in a particular dog and they’d write back and say, “Let us know when you’re interested in a dog”. Wth.) Eventually I just stopped dealing with them.
Otoh, I think there can be expenses for certain breeds that justify an increased adoption fee. For instance most recently I was trying to adopt a German Shepherd Dog. Often GSDs in shelters and rescues come with issues, and they can be a problematic breed to own, so they often have to involve trainers and evaluators and they may need veterinary care as well as certain criteria from potential owners. Of course this all takes time and when dogs are in foster homes for an extended period, rescues still provide food and medical care, etc. The other dog I have is a Cairn Terrier. On occasion I see one on Petfinder and I will send the info to a friend who is heavily involved in the Cairn world. They may work to get the dog so they can place it in a good home with people who know the breed and may have been on a waiting list or something. (Grooming is a big piece of ownership with that breed and something people should know about going into it. How many times do we see dogs in shelters who are so overgrown and matted they can barely walk? Grooming also costs a lot today and that expense should be part of the overall picture of adopting a dog.)
So I sort of see both sides of it.