All I can say is that enjoys free time while you can. You shouldn't have to spend it in exile from people or by being insulted for that matter. We were made to live in unison with each other. One day, we will all be too busy to even merely speak to one another on the DIS, let alone even go on the computer. I am pretty much going through that right now. So all I have to say at the moment is live your life to the fullest. Don't let others decide your fate on how your outer covering will be dcided. "Don't judge a book by its color." Alas. Don't judge a person by their opinions and attitudes. Let a person live the life that they have chosen. If a person cannot accept that, then they are quite rude and self-conscious.
One suggestion on how to make people stop judging you is to stop making a dozen new user names when one person finds out an undesired trait about yourself. Drop your user names and just stick with one. One that truly describes you. Your original one for example.