The DIS has never been the same at any time in the 5 years I have been here. It constantly evolves. The most significant changes occurred when our traffic increased tremendously. You can't have as intimate a community with as many people. It is still a community, but it is different. You will always have people with unpopular opinions, harsh remarks, posting with hidden agendas and disagreements all around.
As for the war, as a community, we have never had to face something of this magnitude before. There are differing opinions on it too and most people feel passionate about their stance. Other than the Presidential election, I have never seen a world event "divide" the board as much. But it is just because of people's passion in their beliefs and there is nothing wrong with that. It makes the world go round.
But I don't want to digress from Maggie's original thought that finding out you've been "had" is not a nice feeling.
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