Am I a bad person if.....

MonorailMan · Oct 27, 2009

.....I became extremely giddy with uncontrollable laughter upon seeing a recent picture of a particular person who has put on what looks to be around 75 pounds? :rolleyes1

Don't get me wrong--I like beefy guys (quite a bit, actually), but the guy I'm referring to did not....um......"balloon up" well.....nor has he aged well since the last time I saw him.

Facebook is a baaaad, bad thing. :rolleyes:

jenn&nelsonrego · Oct 27, 2009

You are evil. But thats ok. We still love you. :lovestruc

ConcKahuna · Oct 27, 2009

You are naughty. I volunteer for your spankings.

starann · Oct 27, 2009

From the great wisdom of a Southern buxom blonde..."If you don;t have anything nice to say...come sit next to me!"

MonorailMan · Oct 27, 2009

DVC~OKW~96 · Oct 27, 2009

Sometimes without ever lifting a finger or expending one ounce of effort or incurring any karma baggage, justice will out. :teeth:

MonorailMan · Oct 27, 2009

DVC~OKW~96 said:
Sometimes without ever lifting a finger or expending one ounce of effort or incurring any karma baggage, justice will out.

Oh yes. Justice hath prevailed. ::yes::

dreweyj · Oct 28, 2009

MonorailMan,

I don't think you're mean. And besides that, I am a beefy guy hehe. Not to mention, we're in the same state. You should hit me up sometime.

OrlandoMike · Oct 28, 2009

I recently had lunch with my first friend I ever had here in O town.

We went back to her house and looked at friends pics on Facebook and laughed our rears off!

So you are not alone!

MonorailMan · Oct 28, 2009

dreweyj said:
MonorailMan,

I don't think you're mean. And besides that, I am a beefy guy hehe. Not to mention, we're in the same state. You should hit me up sometime.

Forget McDonald's......I'm going to Cincy for beef! :banana:

OrlandoMike said:
I recently had lunch with my first friend I ever had here in O town.

We went back to her house and looked at friends pics on Facebook and laughed our rears off!

So you are not alone!

I guess I should've mentioned the guy I was laughing at was an ex who put me through about 18 months of pure Hell. This wasn't a kind-hearted laughter. It was "schadenfreude laughter". :rolleyes1

soulmates · Oct 28, 2009

Sad, but I LOVE it when crappy things happen to crappy people! :rotfl2:

rpmdfw · Oct 28, 2009

MonorailMan said:
I guess I should've mentioned the guy I was laughing at was an ex who put me through about 18 months of pure Hell. This wasn't a kind-hearted laughter. It was "schadenfreude laughter".

In that case, not only are you allowed to laugh at him behind his back, but you're allowed to point and laugh in his face . . . publicly. :thumbsup2

Gypsybear · Oct 28, 2009

rpmdfw said:
In that case, not only are you allowed to laugh at him behind his back, but you're allowed to point and laugh in his face . . . publicly.

I have to agree....if he did indeed put you through h*ll, then you have every right... :thumbsup2

MonorailMan · Oct 28, 2009

soulmates said:
Sad, but I LOVE it when crappy things happen to crappy people!

That would make a great party theme, don't ya think? :cool1:

I can see the invitations now: You are invited to my "Oh, No She Didn't" party......or my "It's A Shame" party. Hmmmm..... :scratchin

rpmdfw said:
In that case, not only are you allowed to laugh at him behind his back, but you're allowed to point and laugh in his face . . . publicly.

True story: I saw him and his partner out at a local drag show, and when the show was finished they started to head toward the exit....which is where I was standing. I was going to initiate conversation and be nice, but his partner turned around to him and said, "I don't want to go this way. Let's go the other way", in order to completely avoid me. They literally walked around the entire parameter of the bar in order to avoid me. So even if I did see him in public I'd unfortunately never get the chance so long as he's with his current partner. :rolleyes:

Gypsybear said:
I have to agree....if he did indeed put you through h*ll, then you have every right...

He's not a total bad person. He just made some really bad decisions that hurt me really, really bad. He's one of those people who can put someone through torture and not even realize it.

I just read what I typed. Okay....he is a bad person. :surfweb:

DOPEYLUVER · Oct 28, 2009

MonorailMan said:
.....I became extremely giddy with uncontrollable laughter upon seeing a recent picture of a particular person who has put on what looks to be around 75 pounds? Don't get me wrong--I like beefy guys (quite a bit, actually), but the guy I'm referring to did not....um......"balloon up" well.....nor has he aged well since the last time I saw him.

Facebook is a baaaad, bad thing.

Facebook is a good, good thing. Sounds like the relationship you had was similar to one a friend of mine went through. We recently found his picture on facebook and had a similar laugh. In fact I just sent a text to my friend asking if he thought this guy crossing the bridge in SF caused the rod to snap.

jlewisinsyr · Oct 28, 2009

It's okay, we've all been there before.

Knew this kid in high school and we had a short lived relationship (few weeks). I was in good shape and am good looking, but he was like model, drop dead gorgeous, perfect abs, etc and he told me that he wasn't attracted to me because I didn't have a good enough body and then hooked up with this other kid. I tried to be friends with him, but he was really shallow (not just in my situation, in general), so I lost contact with him.

Well a few months ago I saw him out at the club, wow, yeah, he must be pushing 230 - 240 now, abs, yeah, maybe under the beer gut, looks, nope, no longer there, karma can be a you know what.

postage stamp · Oct 28, 2009

To me there is nothing more delightful than finding guys that were jerks in high school and college on facebook.

Most of them are now fat, balding, unemployed and divorced. Yep, they are still SOOOOOOO cool!

rpmdfw · Oct 28, 2009

postage stamp said:
To me there is nothing more delightful than finding guys that were jerks in high school and college on facebook.

Most of them are now fat, balding, unemployed and divorced. Yep, they are still SOOOOOOO cool!

Hey!

Being fat and bald isn't some punishment for being a jerk! :headache:

I'm a nice guy! I'm just a follically challenged foodie! :laughing:

postage stamp · Oct 28, 2009

I'm fat too! (Not balding, but I'm a girl so that would be like DOUBLY tragic)

I Just think it's awesome that all these people who never developed a personality because they didn't have to are now drowning in the sea of life because they no longer have their looks to use as a flotation device.

kingLouiethe1 · Oct 28, 2009

I was bigger once upon a time, and a few weeks ago I went to a party with some college friends and there were a lot of other people we knew in college there, and I turned to my friends and I said, "hey, everyone got fat except us."

That made us a feel a little bit better :rotfl:

I feel the follicles slipping away, which is why I try to control my weight. I'm ok with being fat, and I'm oke with being bald, I just refuse to do them at the same time :rotfl2:

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