pixiedaisy
Mouseketeer
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- Apr 5, 2011
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Super irritated this morning. Don't know if it is anxiety over everything I still have left to do before we leave or if it is justified. Trying to keep my cool but could seriously use aright about now.
I have been asking DH for MONTHS, what he would like to do during this trip...letting him know that it takes PLANNING to go to DW if you want to do certain things. He expressed NOTHING...until yesterday when he started packing.YEP, he waited to be interested until 2 DAYS BEFORE THE TRIP!
Now, he wonders "why arent we going to a waterpark for a day"..."why are we even bothering with going to Magic Kingdom after we get to the Poly at noon?"..."we aren't going to have to wake up early at all during this trip, are we?"
And, so I am looking into - "how much will it cost to upgrade tix?" and "can I change our Ohana reservation?"
WHERE IS THE SMILIE FOR BANGING YOUR HEAD AGAINST A WALL WHEN YOU NEED ONE?
My DH tends to be this way about a lot of things. I just politely tell him "That's why I asked you earlier. You should have told me then because its too late now." Before I made ADR's I asked him what he would like to do, but informed him I would only place 25% importance on it because he doesn't do any of the research and doesn't follow my reasoning for planning things when I do

right about now.
YEP, he waited to be interested until 2 DAYS BEFORE THE TRIP!
I had the opposite problem. I started planning our trip about a year in advance (we had to switch plans and postpone to this past April) and every single time I brought up Disney or asked her opinion on one point or another her eyes would glaze over and I'd never really get a response one way or the other. When she saw the planning binder filling up and me researching sites she would even gently tease me about it. Up until we were actually in Disney at the MK our first day and we were at rope drop, getting FPs, and riding rides with minimal waits did her eyes open and she grudgingly admit that the planning had been worth it and that we would have had a drastically different vacation had we just arrived with no pre-planning.
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I swear that if I see you this week, I will say hi and make sure that explain to your wife who I am so that she doesn't get on to you (as you requested...
my wife tammy already is aware of my dis friends not a prob. there are other people im meeting up with this trip and in september, ill be meeting up with three more. last october, i was sitting on a bus from okw to the mk. my phone went off, it was a text from another disdad. i had no clue what he looked like. he said, dave, are you on a bus? i think im sitting a few rows back from you.
