Today marks 99 days until our vacation - wahoo!!! This being our first time Poly stay and longest trip yet (10days) I've been planning non-stop. It's just my DH and me this trip

We're celebrating our 7yr wedding anniversary and both of our birthdays so I really want it special.
But...
I feel like I've preplanned and booked the life out of this trip. I really want to be able to enjoy our down time and fall in love with the Poly. So, I cancelled some of our ADRs and made some "free" days available. I have a few questions:
- Can you eat/drink on the beach? I thought it would be nice to grab our lunch and book and go relax on the beach for awhile.
- Are there any "romantic" must sees/do at the Poly?
- We're booked for a cabana for one day

but for the other days ... is the "quiet" pool really quiet? Are there often kids screaming splashing?
- We booked a Haunted Carriage Ride for one of the nights we're there. What is the best way to get to Fort Wilderness from the Poly?
Yay - I've been lurking on this thread since we booked but have rarely chimed in... I'd better get to it!
-Theresa