How do you even know it _WAS_ her husband? I mean, after he RAN out, the housekeeper didn't even give any information as to who it was. The original poster had to ask who it was. I have to go back and read, but did the OP mention the housekeeper's reaction? Was she apologetic? Scared? Did you at least get some good towel animals out of the deal 
I don't think it is uptight to have cetain boundaries within a room that you are paying for and that contains your personal items.
This is an interesting thread indeed.
Hentob

I don't think it is uptight to have cetain boundaries within a room that you are paying for and that contains your personal items.
This is an interesting thread indeed.
Hentob