I went with my 9yr. old dd last summer. We were staying at the GF, so we freshened up before going. We did wear shorts, as did everyone else who was there. It is such a nice experience. You pick from a menu all diff. types of teas. We both chose the ice teas and it came with a few diff. types of sandwiches, little pastrys and strawberries and cream. Like the above poster said, you can get there anytime during tea time, although, we had ressies, there were quite a few walk ins. We were there under an hour(there was only the 2 of us) and then we left. I was alittle leary about wearing shorts there, because I heard it was somewhat fancy, but luckily we did wear them ,because I took notice and every person in there wore shorts and t'shirts.