sending you lots of to you and your family, at least Phil is at peace now, hold onto the fact that you have been such an inspirational woman throughout all your years of heartache,
I dont know you alison but your story has always touched my heart throughout all your posts, i have always lurked until yesterday cos it touched a raw nerve , but i think you are a marvellous ,strong caring woman and truely an inspiration to us all.
take care and remember the good times, and give your cherubs a huge hug.
Alison, I am so sorry for your loss, I hope you can take comfort from the fact that Phil chose when he wanted to go and his love for you meant he could go peacefully. We are all here for you when you want to cry and grieve.
best wishes
Dear Alison,
Rest now. Anything that needs to be done will get done. You have friends and loved one who will help you do whatever needs doing. Call on them or any of us when you need to. You've had to be so very strong for such a long time. Rest now. Susan
Alison, I am so sorry to hear of your loss, it seems like Phil is at peace now and that ultimatley it was what he wanted. Take care of your self and if there is ANYTHING that I can do for you please let me know.