I had a retainer when I was a kid but it broke a long long time ago and my teeth had spread back apart. It is the best thing I ever did! I still wear my retainers every night (7 years later). What do you think about them? "Futile effort at regaining lost youth and vanity" or "Good For You!"?? Feel free to make your comments

Needless to say, I'm going to a new ortho and luckily my insurance covers it.
I don't know if you meant it to be, but the original post was a little snarky. "Futile effort at regaining lost youth and vanity" seems a little judgemental to me. I just finished with my invisaligns a few months ago and I am thrilled. The dentist told me I needed braces when I was 13. My step-father told me I was too "f-in ugly" and that braces wouldn't help. He also told me I was too bleepin' fat, too bleepin' skinny, too bleepin' stupid, etc every day of my adolescense. Yes, I needed braces, my bite was off, I had an overbite and my self-esteem needed it more than anything. If someone had the gall to tell me I was being vain for wanting braces at 40 - well, holy crap, I think they'd end up on the floor.
People shouldn't be so flippin' quick to judge!![]()
One of my friends just got braces last week (in her early 20s) because she never had a chance as a teen. Another friend spent a good $$ fixing her teeth - several never grew in as adult teeth, so she got new ones and I think some other stuff done. She smiles so much more now than before - how is that a bad thing? I can't wait to see my other friend have a more confident smile.

I don't have a problem with people doing things, cosmetically, if it makes them more confident. I know I certainly dress better and have better posture since I was blessed by the Milk Fairy.![]()
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As long as you wear your retainer, your teeth will be nice and straight.
I had braces for 18 months when I was 30 (off by 31) because I was probably going to have to have gum surgery on my bottom front teeth due to severe crowding that was causing a receding gum line. That, and gum surgery, from what I understand, is quite painful.
Since it was a longer process than plastic surgery, I would hardly call getting braces as an adult a "futile effort at regaining lost youth and vanity."As long as you wear your retainer, your teeth will be nice and straight.
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Bottom line, if someone wants to get braces they should be able to do so without being thought of as being vain.
Milk Fairy? As a man I must admit I am a little afraid to ask...
Let's just say there's a decent difference in my pre-pregnancy size and my post-pregnancy/breastfeeding size. 
I suppose a man might not understand....Let's just say there's a decent difference in my pre-pregnancy size and my post-pregnancy/breastfeeding size.
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