Acting Rich

I just put in your town and mine (with a 30k income) and you'd need to make, $59,763. Now I live in NY but I'm about an 1/2 away from the city, technically in the burbs.

I need to move! :)

I did the same and going from Cedar Rapids to our town she would need to make $39,765, but our town to Boston the $30,000 would go to $35,343--keeping in mind that official poverty level for a family of 2 in our area is $27,500 so this isn't saying much.
 
I found that same passage interesting but for a different reason. If you save what he said you will never retire. That will not
finance much of a retirement. It
might cover your medical insurance but not much more

It depends on what they are considering saving for retirement--conventional wisdom is 15% should fund an average retirement-but that 15% includes your portion to a 401K, etc. so if they are saying 10% above and beyond that you should be fine-given it is wisely invested, etc.
 
I don't know enough about COL in Boston to comment on the hypothetical situation she gave, but - barring an unplanned pregnancy, which does happen- a baby or two shouldn't be brought into the situation anyway.

Wow. Yeah, thanks for pointing that out. I made the painful decision to have my tubes tied at the age of 25 because I knew at that point I would never be able to afford kids. At 33, I still think it was the right decision because at 33 I still can't afford them. It makes me furious now when I see irresponsible people with 2 or 3 of them living off my taxes.
 
:worship: Thank you, I was wondering when that was going to come up!

It's been interesting reading all the responses. I still stand by my point that anyone that has a full time income can live within their means if they choose to. If you make $45,000 and can't live on that the way you'd like in the city you're in, you can always choose to take a minimum wage job in a lower cost of living area and live better than you are now.

Oh, and I'm very good at spotting scams on Craigslist, I'm in marketing and it's actually part of what I do. Bottom line is no one needs to live in any particular area. I want a penthouse in Paris, but if I came on here moaning about how much it is people would probably tell me to get over it or move to a cheaper area. You want to live in Boston even though you say you don't make enough money to live there the way you want :confused3. You are right though, I've never lived in Boston so I don't know what it's like, however I would never choose to live somewhere that wasn't within my means.

And I don't know why everyone is assuming a cheap car = a bad or unsafe car? People are hurting right now and are looking to just get rid of any extra weight they can to have something resembling a Christmas. This is a great time to find a good deal on a used car. The good deals are out there, you just have to find them and truly care more about reliability than looks.

I'm not going to comment on my personal situation other than to say that it's human nature to look at other people and say, "It was easier for them." It's always easier for everyone else. You have no idea where I live since I don't share that info on public forums :). (I tell you, one incident with a stalker will do that to ya! :lmao:)

And for those who are mentioning taxes, I very clearly state in my scenario that it's take home pay, which means after taxes are paid that's what you take home. You can't mock my hypothetical scenario by changing the parameters of it :confused3. There's also plenty of money left over in my scenario for higher insurance costs and parking. Having a short commute is also not a need, plenty of people have long commutes, if you can't afford to live near work that's one of the sacrifices you make, you're not entitled to live a stones throw from work. There will always be a reason why you can't live within your means.

A PP pointed out as well that no one is saying to rough it for life, if you're just starting out it's expected that it's going to be a squeeze and that you're going to not be making a lot of money. The difference is that many people starting out today feel entitled to the way of life that comes after the struggle, not before. It's your responsibility to build upon your life and get in a better situation, if you don't then that's really a whole other thread topic ;). That's why the article mentions saving in your 30s, 40s, and 50s. No one expects a 21 year old or recent college graduate to just be rolling in money!

Oh, and I just added the Florida thing because this is a Disney message board so I though it would be interesting :). I realize the cost of living is very different, but there are also people making it there on less than $15,000 a year. I did live in Florida for a year and worked for WDW, realized it wasn't for me and the moment they handed me that Steamboat Willie pin I was out of there :lmao:!

The point of the OP was to get people thinking and talking about money, not to get people to come on and defend why they're not living within their means and their spending habits as if they are being attacked by the article or my observations of it. Anyway, if you read that $30,000 millionaire article part of the qualification is not knowing you're a $30,000 millionaire :lmao: (in case the smilie doesn't convey it, I'll just say it, I don't think anyone that has responded is one of these).

At the end of the day it's your life and your money, you can do what you want and you don't need to defend that to anyone. As long as you're happy and not endangering yourself or others that's all that really matters :thumbsup2.

But you also missed the point about MAKING $30K and BRINGING HOME $30K--living off a take home pay of $30K isn't all that hard to do in most areas of the country, living off the take home pay of a $30K/year job (which nets out closer to $15K) is poverty level or close to it for pretty much the entire country living near a major city.
 

But you also missed the point about MAKING $30K and BRINGING HOME $30K--living off a take home pay of $30K isn't all that hard to do in most areas of the country, living off the take home pay of a $30K/year job (which nets out closer to $15K) is poverty level or close to it for pretty much the entire country living near a major city.

Exactly.

And I'm not sure where the OP thinks people like me ought to move to? Basically she is saying people in my situation should quit our paying jobs, pack up and move far away from our family and move to a place where the same job pays less but the COL is lower... salary reflects COL... If I was working the same job in Iowa, I wouldn't be making as much as I do in Boston.
 
I have a sister-in-law and brother-in-law who we call pretenders. They make decent money, but live beyond their means to impress people. They could live comfortably if they just didn't insist on status symbol cars, home, and trying to be who they aren't. Instead, they get stressed over how they are going to pay for their chosen lifestyle. It has become harder for them to pretend to be rich in this economy. Sometimes it's funny, but in reality it's just sad.
 
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So, just for kicks in regards to the PP's, I pulled up a cost of living calculator for Boston.


Interesting sidenote that I found on that website.. 50.27% of people in Boston have never been married, compared to the 24.39% national average. I don't know why that is, I just thought it was interesting. :thumbsup2

Since Boston is such a college town it might be that many of the residents are younger and stay after graduation or come for grad school, etc. Also the economy here is rather diverse with medical, education, high tech, biotech, etc. Although no area is great right now for jobs, I think overall Boston's market (housing included) has fared better than many.

I've lived in MA my entire life and honestly if DH and I didn't buy a house years ago the COL here would have made it very difficult for us to stay. (And DH has 2 masters degrees) Over the last 10 years the housing prices have really been crazy....even in this economy.

Also towns can really vary from one another even if they are only a few miles apart. Our schools are town specific and tax revenues can impact budgets tremendously so being next to a nice town doesnt really mean much in terms of value.

Finally, child care costs are huge here! In some national magazine last year Boston was rated #1 in cost for care with wait lists in many centers. When I stopped working full time in 2000, my two children (not infants) were $350 per week for a small, in-home child care program. I had to clear $350 per week 9 years ago and that monthly expense was more than my mortgage......children have to be factored into your budget if you need care in this area.
 
:worship: Thank you, I was wondering when that was going to come up!

It's been interesting reading all the responses. I still stand by my point that anyone that has a full time income can live within their means if they choose to. If you make $45,000 and can't live on that the way you'd like in the city you're in, you can always choose to take a minimum wage job in a lower cost of living area and live better than you are now.

Oh, and I'm very good at spotting scams on Craigslist, I'm in marketing and it's actually part of what I do. Bottom line is no one needs to live in any particular area. I want a penthouse in Paris, but if I came on here moaning about how much it is people would probably tell me to get over it or move to a cheaper area. You want to live in Boston even though you say you don't make enough money to live there the way you want :confused3. You are right though, I've never lived in Boston so I don't know what it's like, however I would never choose to live somewhere that wasn't within my means.

And I don't know why everyone is assuming a cheap car = a bad or unsafe car? People are hurting right now and are looking to just get rid of any extra weight they can to have something resembling a Christmas. This is a great time to find a good deal on a used car. The good deals are out there, you just have to find them and truly care more about reliability than looks.

I'm not going to comment on my personal situation other than to say that it's human nature to look at other people and say, "It was easier for them." It's always easier for everyone else. You have no idea where I live since I don't share that info on public forums :). (I tell you, one incident with a stalker will do that to ya! :lmao:)

And for those who are mentioning taxes, I very clearly state in my scenario that it's take home pay, which means after taxes are paid that's what you take home. You can't mock my hypothetical scenario by changing the parameters of it :confused3. There's also plenty of money left over in my scenario for higher insurance costs and parking. Having a short commute is also not a need, plenty of people have long commutes, if you can't afford to live near work that's one of the sacrifices you make, you're not entitled to live a stones throw from work. There will always be a reason why you can't live within your means.

A PP pointed out as well that no one is saying to rough it for life, if you're just starting out it's expected that it's going to be a squeeze and that you're going to not be making a lot of money. The difference is that many people starting out today feel entitled to the way of life that comes after the struggle, not before. It's your responsibility to build upon your life and get in a better situation, if you don't then that's really a whole other thread topic ;). That's why the article mentions saving in your 30s, 40s, and 50s. No one expects a 21 year old or recent college graduate to just be rolling in money!

Oh, and I just added the Florida thing because this is a Disney message board so I though it would be interesting :). I realize the cost of living is very different, but there are also people making it there on less than $15,000 a year. I did live in Florida for a year and worked for WDW, realized it wasn't for me and the moment they handed me that Steamboat Willie pin I was out of there :lmao:!

The point of the OP was to get people thinking and talking about money, not to get people to come on and defend why they're not living within their means and their spending habits as if they are being attacked by the article or my observations of it. Anyway, if you read that $30,000 millionaire article part of the qualification is not knowing you're a $30,000 millionaire :lmao: (in case the smilie doesn't convey it, I'll just say it, I don't think anyone that has responded is one of these).

At the end of the day it's your life and your money, you can do what you want and you don't need to defend that to anyone. As long as you're happy and not endangering yourself or others that's all that really matters :thumbsup2.

Wow, you have it all figured out! That's amazing.


Problem is, your scenario is full of holes. The rat trap you found in Boston for $695 will probably mean that your paid for car will be stolen or stripped in short order.

And do you figure health costs into your rosy scenario? Minimum wage jobs have few decent benefits, and one illness will throw you so deep in debt at that salary rage that you'll never climb out.


And while you pooh-pooh the whole children thing, it is a total game-changer in regards to finances. And if you spend any amount on the DIS boards, you'll find out that babies often come into families, ready or not.

I DARE you go actually go to Boston and try to put this into practice.

I remember moving to Fort Lauderdale, and looking up classified for these great, CHEAP, UNIQUE apartments. Then I drove by the neighborhood, and realized that I could never live there. Vagrants everywhere, bars on the windows...etc. REALITY CHECK!!!!!!!!!!
 
Ok, I took this post as a challenge :). DH and I sat down and decided that hypothetically we are moving to Boston and we have to live off of $30,000 take home pay a year which is $2,500 take home a month.

We had no problem finding cheap places to live via Craigslist and we also found some on other websites like apartments.com. We decided on a nice 1-bed second floor apartment for $695 a month plus utilities (however, hot water is included). It's less than 35 minutes to downtown Boston. (BTW we chose this one because it was really nice and pretty in a cute house that had been converted to apartments and is a 1-bed, if we were really going for the cheapest here we could have gone cheaper.) We figure $200 a month for utilities, $200 for gas, $400 for food, our car insurance is just shy of $34, and $80 for a T-Mobile unlimited family plan. That puts our total monthly bills at $1,609 which leaves $891 left over. That means we can invest or save $250 a month which is 10% of our pay and still have $641 left as a buffer for things like clothes, toiletries, etc. and to cover any underestimates in things like utilities or gas. In reality though we would most likely be saving or investing $500 a month since we are incredibly frugal.

Not only can you live and work in the Boston metropolis for $30,000 take home a year, it's actually easy if it's your first priority. The issue is that the line between needs and wants gets fuzzy at best and completely ignored at worst. You don't need to own a house and you don't need to live a stones throw away from work, those are luxuries for people who can afford them. I also included a family cell phone plan in my calculations, which is in reality a want, not a need. My SIL and BIL managed just fine without a cell phone the entire time they were raising 5 kids and my DH and I have lived without cell phones by choice many of the years we've been together, the world functioned quite well before people were leashed to them.

I also didn't include a car payment because it is quite honestly some of the worst debt to be in since a car immediately depreciates when you drive it off the lot and continues to depreciate. We've always paid cash for our cars. I found a few on the Boston Craigslist for less than $1000.

Needs are a roof over your head, utilities (electric, water, heat), food, and clothing. Everything else is a want. The problem is that most people choose wants over financial stability, which they are more than welcome to do by the way. However, the fact is it is possible to live on $30,000 a year with room to spare and even save, even if you don't want to. Most people will just choose instead to have as many wants as they can possibly cram into their paycheck - hence living paycheck to paycheck. My point is that if someone justifies cramming as many wants into their paycheck as possible at $30,000 a year they will do the same at $100,000 a year. I don't personally know anyone who makes $30,000 a year who doesn't have cable and they'll hold onto that cable bill with two hands even though cable is a completely unnecessary luxury.

If someone is good with money they will always be able to live below their means. My MIL raised 11 kids on $40,000 a year and never went into any kind of debt other than a mortgage. (My DH is telling me now to let you all know they always had everything they needed, every kid had braces, etc. and they were happy and always took a family vacation once a year, usually camping which they love :).)

Oh, and BTW when I was 18 my DH and I were living together on less than $24,000 a year (this was 6 years ago now) and we were able to save enough money to put a down payment on a home, so I'm not just talking from the cheap seats here.

A cast member makes $7.25 an hour, which assuming they work 40 hours a week 52 weeks a year and keep all of it (very unrealistic since taxes are always taken out) they're taking home $15,080 a year or a household $30,160 a year. I know many people that are able to live below their means as cast members and not go into debt. It's all about priorities and realizing that all these things we've been programmed to believe we need are not in fact needs at all, if someone stripped them all away tomorrow you'd still be alive.

GoldieSaysMeep - I hope you aren't taking this as attacking you because I'm not, I'm just using your post as an example to point out certain facts about what is possible. I'm not saying you're irresponsible with money or anything like that. Congrats on your upcoming marriage and good luck with the whole transition, it's an exciting and sometimes stressful time :)!

Now show us how to do this on a $30,000 salary (gross pay) a year, which I think is what Goldie and others were referring to.
:)
 
But you also missed the point about MAKING $30K and BRINGING HOME $30K--living off a take home pay of $30K isn't all that hard to do in most areas of the country, living off the take home pay of a $30K/year job (which nets out closer to $15K) is poverty level or close to it for pretty much the entire country living near a major city.

I agree, I think people were talking about a salary of $30K and the OP gave her hypothetical based on a take home pay of $30K. Big difference.
 
Ok, I took this post as a challenge :). DH and I sat down and decided that hypothetically we are moving to Boston and we have to live off of $30,000 take home pay a year which is $2,500 take home a month.

We had no problem finding cheap places to live via Craigslist and we also found some on other websites like apartments.com. We decided on a nice 1-bed second floor apartment for $695 a month plus utilities (however, hot water is included). It's less than 35 minutes to downtown Boston. (BTW we chose this one because it was really nice and pretty in a cute house that had been converted to apartments and is a 1-bed, if we were really going for the cheapest here we could have gone cheaper.) We figure $200 a month for utilities, $200 for gas, $400 for food, our car insurance is just shy of $34, and $80 for a T-Mobile unlimited family plan. That puts our total monthly bills at $1,609 which leaves $891 left over. That means we can invest or save $250 a month which is 10% of our pay and still have $641 left as a buffer for things like clothes, toiletries, etc. and to cover any underestimates in things like utilities or gas. In reality though we would most likely be saving or investing $500 a month since we are incredibly frugal.

Not only can you live and work in the Boston metropolis for $30,000 take home a year, it's actually easy if it's your first priority. The issue is that the line between needs and wants gets fuzzy at best and completely ignored at worst. You don't need to own a house and you don't need to live a stones throw away from work, those are luxuries for people who can afford them. I also included a family cell phone plan in my calculations, which is in reality a want, not a need. My SIL and BIL managed just fine without a cell phone the entire time they were raising 5 kids and my DH and I have lived without cell phones by choice many of the years we've been together, the world functioned quite well before people were leashed to them.

I also didn't include a car payment because it is quite honestly some of the worst debt to be in since a car immediately depreciates when you drive it off the lot and continues to depreciate. We've always paid cash for our cars. I found a few on the Boston Craigslist for less than $1000.

Needs are a roof over your head, utilities (electric, water, heat), food, and clothing. Everything else is a want. The problem is that most people choose wants over financial stability, which they are more than welcome to do by the way. However, the fact is it is possible to live on $30,000 a year with room to spare and even save, even if you don't want to. Most people will just choose instead to have as many wants as they can possibly cram into their paycheck - hence living paycheck to paycheck. My point is that if someone justifies cramming as many wants into their paycheck as possible at $30,000 a year they will do the same at $100,000 a year. I don't personally know anyone who makes $30,000 a year who doesn't have cable and they'll hold onto that cable bill with two hands even though cable is a completely unnecessary luxury.

If someone is good with money they will always be able to live below their means. My MIL raised 11 kids on $40,000 a year and never went into any kind of debt other than a mortgage. (My DH is telling me now to let you all know they always had everything they needed, every kid had braces, etc. and they were happy and always took a family vacation once a year, usually camping which they love :).)

Oh, and BTW when I was 18 my DH and I were living together on less than $24,000 a year (this was 6 years ago now) and we were able to save enough money to put a down payment on a home, so I'm not just talking from the cheap seats here.

A cast member makes $7.25 an hour, which assuming they work 40 hours a week 52 weeks a year and keep all of it (very unrealistic since taxes are always taken out) they're taking home $15,080 a year or a household $30,160 a year. I know many people that are able to live below their means as cast members and not go into debt. It's all about priorities and realizing that all these things we've been programmed to believe we need are not in fact needs at all, if someone stripped them all away tomorrow you'd still be alive.

GoldieSaysMeep - I hope you aren't taking this as attacking you because I'm not, I'm just using your post as an example to point out certain facts about what is possible. I'm not saying you're irresponsible with money or anything like that. Congrats on your upcoming marriage and good luck with the whole transition, it's an exciting and sometimes stressful time :)!


I'm sorry, but that whole idea is absolutely ridiculous. I make 35K a year (less than 30 take home) in Boston and I have to live with my parents. I don't have a car either. Sure, it's easy to find $650 apartments on Craigslist. But until you live in an area, you don't know how safe it is. I can guarantee you that those are NOT safe areas that you would be comfortable living in or raising a family in.

$200 in gas is great. But what are you going to do with the car once you get it 35 minutes into Boston? It costs about $300 to park it for a month, less if your job will let you run out and feed the meter every hour. Of course, you'd have to be at work at 6am to get a meter spot. If you take the T, it's $5 a day to park the car, plus about $100 a month for the pleasure of riding the T.

Also, if you're planning on your commute being 35 minutes to downtown, then you are still living within city limits. I live two miles from my job in downtown Boston and it takes me 35 minutes each way. And that's driving or taking the T. And rents in my city for a ROOM in a triple decker are $1000 a month.

If you're looking more like 35 miles outside of Boston, which is where you're going to find the rents you're talking about, you're looking at a 2+ hour commute. Each way. Every day.

Oh, and your car insurance sure as heck isn't going to stay at $34 once your company gets a load of where you're living. Try $2K a year or more.
 
But you also missed the point about MAKING $30K and BRINGING HOME $30K--living off a take home pay of $30K isn't all that hard to do in most areas of the country, living off the take home pay of a $30K/year job (which nets out closer to $15K) is poverty level or close to it for pretty much the entire country living near a major city.

Show me a tax table that takes 50% of pay on that low of an income. I make considerably more than that and I get no where near that much in taxes taken out.

Lets take 25% of 30,000 and the person nets 22,500. Heck, I'll even give you 35% which is doubtful and that is 19,500.
 
I grew up in MA and could never find a car insurance company that would charge me $34 a month. Which one did you use in your scenario?

They also do take taxes out of paychecks in the Boston area, so you should factor that in.

Also if you are living in a $695 apartment in Boston, be sure to invest in health insurance for all the times you'll be mugged and beaten.
 
I grew up in MA and could never find a car insurance company that would charge me $34 a month. Which one did you use in your scenario?

They also do take taxes out of paychecks in the Boston area, so you should factor that in.

Also if you are living in a $695 apartment in Boston, be sure to invest in health insurance for all the times you'll be mugged and beaten.

:rotfl: I know it's not funny because it happens every day in those neighborhoods but...

:rotfl::lmao:

So true.
 
Show me a tax table that takes 50% of pay on that low of an income. I make considerably more than that and I get no where near that much in taxes taken out.

Lets take 25% of 30,000 and the person nets 22,500. Heck, I'll even give you 35% which is doubtful and that is 19,500.

I was assuming she would be smart enough to have health insurance and retirement savings taken out too, if not, that is even worse.
 
I was assuming she would be smart enough to have health insurance and retirement savings taken out too, if not, that is even worse.

I have dental, vision, retirement and taxes taken out and I'm still not at 50% of my gross. I pay health OOP at $98/month.
 
I have dental, vision, retirement and taxes taken out and I'm still not at 50% of my gross. I pay health OOP at $98/month.

So that gets you into the $19,000 take home range if you do 6% to retirement funds which still isn't a livable wage in Boston. Even at the flea-trap apartment 1/2 of your income would go to JUST rent.

My medical is $585/month so that would get you to $12,000 take home.
 
I have dental, vision, retirement and taxes taken out and I'm still not at 50% of my gross. I pay health OOP at $98/month.

Your healthcare is really affordable! When I worked 6 yrs ago, it was $450/mth for me and dd. I know the individual with no dependents rate would be cheaper, but I bet my single co-workers were still paying more than $98 per mth.
 














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