We all judge everything through the lens of our personal experiences. All of us. Every single one of us. Including you and me. It is all that we have to work with.
If you think that she is a racist, I am okay with that. That is between you and her. But if you think that everyone is the world who chooses not to judge her is somehow "less" than you, well, that is another story.
I don't think they are "less". I am just disheartened at the ugliness. And you are correct, that is through my lens.