I've dragged this on long enough. It's time to fold the tents and move on to the next even more exciting adventure, such as wrapping Christmas presents (always dangerous when I'm involved). But I thought I'd close with a rambling, incoherent discourse about what Disney World means to us as a family.
I've already said a lot (some would argue way too much) about how much we love to travel, how much we love Disney World, and the reasons we love it. So instead of re-hashing those items, I'll stick with the bottom line. You can spend your money on stuff, or you can spend it on experiences. My parents once told me they could have gotten a larger house, or joined a country club, or installed cable TV before I was close to college-age. But instead, they saved up for a vacation each year, thinking that was how they wanted to spend their money, and create the memories that have lasted us a lifetime. That stuck with me (and Mom and Dad never thought I was listening). We made it to 49 out of 50 states. Would my time have been better spent swimming in a pool and playing golf, or appreciating creation in the form of Old Faithful, Kilauea or the Grand Canyon? It's a subjective argument, of course. And I'm not saying that those who would choose otherwise are wrong, necessarily.
But for my family, the experiences gained by traveling cannot be replaced. Our favorite things we've ever done usually involve exploring a new place. And that's where Disney World comes in. Disney gives you experiences, sights, and memories that you cannot get anywhere else. And I'm not just talking about the Dole Whip. But that's a part of it.
You know this, of course, because you're sitting at your computer reading about the experiences of others who saw and treasured the same things you did. How many times do you get the chance to see a castle? Hang-glide over California? Climb a mountain and get chased by a Yeti? Watch other people get terrorized by a haunted elevator?
On other trips, we get to see both natural and man-made wonders. Disney taps into your imagination and lets you live there, amongst those wonders for a week. I wouldn't have gotten that at the country club. When I ask my kids, "What's your favorite place in the whole world?" the answer, shockingly, is: "Disney World." But I love the next words out of Sarah's mouth: "So far." She's getting it. She's ready for more adventure.
(Scotty says his favorite place is Dunkin' Donuts, so we'll keep working with him.)
Time is short, and our time with our kids is even shorter. One minute, your daughter is a precious 4-year-old trying on her first pair of Mickey ears...
The next, she's 8 1/2 and conquering thrill rides.
One minute, your son is sporting baby fat and falls in love with a beanie.
The next, he's dreaming of being an astronaut.
One minute, you're a dashing, handsome young man (work with me here) with a beautiful bride...
The next, you worry about the size of your gut and keep your bald head covered at all times, wondering why that beautiful bride is sticking with you.
I read about a study once that said the memories kids treasure most are the ones of the family
doing things together, and that family vacations were highest on that list. Again, this won't be true for everyone. But on a fundamental level, it makes sense. "Remember your first ride on Expedition Everest?" will get a much bigger reaction than "Remember when we got that new TV?"
Anyway, my point in all of this is to encourage you. All of the planning you do to get discounts and find the right place to stay and make ADR's and get Fast Passes and plane tickets...it's worth it. All of the work you're putting into being the best father or mother you can be, and all of the stress from the 24/7 job of parenting when it seems like nobody appreciates what you're doing...it's worth it. Your kids will grow up asking the questions, "Am I special? Am I loved? Do I have what it takes?" You are the one answering those questions for them. And the more you're there beside them, encouraging them, living life, setting an example and sharing experiences with them, the better the answer will be.
I have no idea when we'll be back at Disney World. It's an expensive trip for us, and we want to have some variety in our travels as well.
But I know this: we can't wait to go back. It's too special not to warrant a return trip.
Thank you to all of you for reading along. I enjoyed re-living the vacation, reading all of your feedback, absorbing your (good-natured) abuse, and trying to come up with enough movie quotes to both challenge you and attempt to keep the report interesting. I appreciate everyone who played along, and I can also definitely say I will never forget the creativity that went into the Beverly slogan contest.
I've "met" a great deal of very special people on these boards. You folks are bright, funny, creative, and incredibly generous. I'm honored that you chose to spend some time with me, and were even willing to overlook my stupid sense of humor. I'm looking forward to interacting with you more in the other threads!
Captain_Oblivious... signing off.
P.S. I realized I never got that picture of me getting drenched on Kali River Rapids developed and published here. Sorry about that. Suffice it to say, it looked something like this: