1) Do you buy for cost of points or home resort?
2) How can you request your resort?
#1 is highly debated. Many on this board favor the "Home Resort" purchase -- we did the opposite. We purchased SSR in early 2004 (before the resort was open) based on
purchase price (w/in $10/point of BWV resales at the time);
length of contract (first resort to offer full 50 years since OKW); and
cost of dues (lower than our desired BWV). In the 12 years of ownership, we've stayed at SSR only twice and have been extremely successful using the DVC points at other DVC locations: Boardwalk Villas, Vero Beach, OKW, Wilderness Lodge, Animal Kingdom Lodge (Concierge!), Grand Californian and Aulani.
However -- it is essential to evaluate your travel intentions as a factor in your choice of home resort. We purchased with one goal: Boardwalk Villas in late-January-every-year-for-a-conference. The late January time period is NOT difficult to book at the 7 month window for this property. I'm sure I'd be outta luck if I expected to book Boardwalk Villas routinely for visits in October! If your travel windows will be driven by school holidays -- you'll likely need/want to book using the 11-month window.
#2 - Resale options include nearly all resorts but you may have to wait patiently for the perfect combo of Resort + Use Year + Contract Size + Point Balance.
When buying direct from Disney, you'll be guided towards the resorts that Disney is currently selling. You can request one of the "sold out" locations from Disney -- but this path will likely require a deposit upfront just to be added to a waitlist.
5) I have read to split up the contract so when the wife and I are pushing up dandelions, it is easier to split up for the kids to take it over?
A given contract cannot be split after initial purchase. The contract remains "as is" when transferred between family members or is sold through resale. Buying multiple smaller contracts under the same master account is a helpful tool if you later need to downsize your total ownership or wish to transfer a contract to an heir.
6) Are there any other heads up as we go thru this?
Be sure to give thorough consideration to the "full-frieght vs resale" question. There are pros/cons on both sides -- but it could save you thousands on your purchase.
Be sure you fully understand Use Year (UY) and how it plays into banking, borrowing and transferring points. Write out your intended travel schedules, frame them carefully into a "best UY" target and then go back and REVIEW the rules of banking/borrowing to verify your target UY.
Add "cancellation policy" to your list of understanding. Go back and review impact of canceling a reservation to your target UY. Did you also grasp the terms "Holding Points" and "Reservation Points"? If not -- go back for a quick review.
Review the historical Maint Fees of the various resorts. (There is a link here somewhere that shows the maint fees from all DVC resorts in a single table. Very handy!)
Be truthful with yourself and your family on how you envision using your DVC: DVC resort stays? exchanging through RCI? access to BVTC destinations? ABD?
DCL? Poly Club Level? Look up the related costs for each way you hope to use DVC and determine if it is a "good value" for your family. Do compare against cash rates and other methods (discounts) you might have available to accomplish the same end goal.
... Have fun and happy research!