Actually, there was a thread on this about a week ago. I made serious inquiries on our last cruise as we plan to travel with a friend who has severely peanut allergic kids.
First, you will fill out a medical form when you register for the club or lab (age dependent.) You should also request a form from
DCL ahead of time which goes to the dining room staff. You server and head server are then very well aware of the situation. You will be seated at table with just your family. They will go over all the information you gave at the first dinner, to be sure that they understand and have all the details. They are VERY cautious.
There is NO eating in the club/lab except that there is water available. They do take the kids to eat at specified times (see the navigator handed out on the first day--lists all kid programming for the week). The only exception is that the kids in the lab play a game called "Into the Blender" where at the end, they make smoothies...but this is older kids.
Yes, the kid counsellors can administer emergency treatment following your instructions. Yes, they are very familiar with epi-pens. Please check with your doc as to whether this is the FIRST treatment you want used. Many kids are instructed to use Benadryl or another drug first and use epi only if the "lesser" agent doesn't work.
Personally, I wouldn't let the counsellors take my kid to eat....but I'd do everything else...again, that's personal opinion.
ALso...there are peanuts at the ice cream station as one of the toppings. The cast member changes gloves and gets your kid's cone or dish from the soft serve machine (change of gloves minimizes any chance of contamination.) However, they cannot promise you that one peanut didn't migrate into the sprinkles....so no toppings is the safest way to go.
SO...call DCL for the medical form for the dining staff. You will fill out another form for the kid counsellors at registration for the club.