Poolrat
I am alive, sometimes I wonder too.
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You know, you could charge her like $30 bucks an hour for stuff like this.Call it therapy or counseling and charge $100!!!
Swimming lessons for older kids and adults are just that 1/2 lesson and 1/2 therapy session. They are physically capable of the skill but something is preventing them from mastering the skill.
I approach lesson with older kids and adults as a what works for them as opposed to starting at step 1 and going forward as outlined in all our manuals. At the older kid and Adult level they wasnt to learn how to survivie and to get across the water, they really don't care how. So i work with what they are comfortable with, face out, on their back, modified strokes to make it easy and successful. After that is comfortable, then we can get "style points" and learn more strokes and "clean up" what they know.
I'll try that!!! so far I only tried to prolong the time under water, because I can exhale for a very short time, but then get stuck. But under the shower might work. And friend of mine, a neuro-psychologist (crazy guy, he actually wrote his thesis about joke reception in the brain...),



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told me as well that with the right training I should be able to learn it. But he had no hints how to work on it... I personally don't know anyone with the same problem and none of my former PE teachers realized what my problem was. So you must be a real good swimming instructor!!!
With young kids ( ages 3-10) we start from the beginning and blowing bubbles is first.
Anyone older has most likely learned to "make it work" but usually start with arm and leg movements and forget the whole breath control issue. With sports on land there is also a right way to breathe but it most likely won't interfere too much with actually being able to participate. In swimming, you don't breathe right and you are going to have a difficult time mastering the arms and legs. When you get panicky, you stiffen up and don't float as well and then you start to be lower in the water and then you panic all over again.
Thanks for the compliment! I feel I am experienced and have learned over the last almost 30 years

Try the shower thing and see if it starts to make you a bit more comfortable letting out your air. You can always step to the side and get more air so you are safe.
No, I'm...cautious.![]()
Cautious is OK. It should be on the bucket list- just once.
