OmG I have to get off here- I have so much to do today!!!!
but right now- for the first time in her entire life- I don't know where my daughter is.
I'm mildly panicked about it but I'm trying to keep myself calm...... trying.
backstory:
Ruby has been wanting to go over this other girls house to ride her horses. She knows this girl from church and says her mom also teaches one of the classes (in awanas -which they don't do in the summer but that's irrelevant) but I don't KNOW THEM. Anyway, she asked about it a couple of weeks ago and I'm like well I don't know; them so I'll have to talk to her mom- get her number for me.
Ofcourse she forgot.
Then last week she took a change of clothes with her BUT she was supposed to call me if she was gonna be able to go over the girls house after church and I'd talk to her mom first. But then turned out she couldn't because they had plans after church and wouldn't be going home. But she still forgot to get their number!
So last night she mentions it again and I told her that she still had to call me after church and let me talk to her mom.
But I couldn't sleep last night (haven't been able to sleep well in a long time) so I ended up going to sleep while they were at church (I know- bad mommy and daddy not going to church 2 weeks in a row!) and she called- but spoke to JEFF! He didn't wake me up! (this is where he gets in trouble also

)anyway she just tells him that I said it was okay and he says okay and that's it.
WE DON'T KNOW the mother's name, their last name, where they live, their phone number- nothing! All I know is the girl's name is Jennifer, that's it.
And this is the first time I've ever not really known where Ruby is... they are supposed to bring her back to church tonight since they'll go to church tonight too -so until then I have no idea where my daughter is... just at some "jennifer's house" riding horses (and she better not get hurt again! OMG more panic......)
I'm so angry at my ST right now.. she knew better. She knew I had to talk to the mom and she knew we don't know diddly squat about these people or their phone number or anything. I'm trying really hard to stay calm because there is nothing I can do until this evening. Do you think I'm right to be upset? ugh
Anyway- i was able to bid/win a clarinet and case on ebay and even though I THOUGHT I only needed the case for Ruby because I THOUGHT she'd only demolished the styrofoam inside of her soft-sided clarinet case... good thing I decided to go for a clarinet too (since on ebay it's about the same price as JUST a case thru the school/etc.) because I was looking at her clarinet.... that used to be MY clarinet from 6th grade thru highschool... and she's basically demolished it too! it's a mess, even though just before school ended we got new corks and pads on it (again) I see broken pieces at the edges where the pieces connect together, a crack in the barrel and one body piece, etc.
arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
leave it to her to tear up my clarinet I had ALL THOSE YEARS and never had a scratch on it. But then again I treated it like gold because I knew what a treat it was for me to be able to have such a thing- because we were so poor-- but she's an ungrateful spoiled brat who thinks nothing of damaging expensive items. (can you tell I'm not happy with my ST right now?)
Okay I'm gonna go keep myself busy getting all this tons of stuff done that I have to get done- to get us ready to leave tomorrow AND i have to get Jeff ready to leave on friday and list out everything he'll have to add to his luggage later and what he'll have to do/etc. I'm not used to leaving so much in his own hands. LOL I usually do all the packing and everything else! This time I'm doing everything I CAN do before I leave and he has to do the rest. He'll have to finish his packing, leave the house acceptable (water turned off/etc.), print out his boarding passes since AA only lets you check in/print that within 24hrs of your flight so I can't do it before I leave (and have to show him tonight how to do that when I do OUR tickets for our flight tomorrow), he'll have to get there on time, park the car in the right place already paid for, get his luggage checked (free since grandfathered in) and hope his carryon doesn't give him problems (I'm letting HIM carry the FE's and FE magnets for everyone- let hm lug those on! but hope he can explain if they ask what the magnet 'mass' is LOL), get there.... use the right shuttle to get to Hojo's that I already paid for/etc.
I'm a little anxious that he'll forget stuff. Even with lists of things to do or to buy at the store he always forgets something. ahhhhhhhhhhhhh