7 months pregnant and husband having an affair...what now?

[Eeyore'sthebest]

So glad you made it home safely. You have awesome parents. First they make appointments to check on your physical well-being, and then they made appointments to help you emotionally. Great support system.

 

[Debbie Jean]

I know how you are feeling in this moment... you've had to be so strong for yourself and your little one. But you can let go... you are safe now and it's OK if you need to fall apart a little bit... let your parents be a soft place to land...they've got your back

And everyone here is keeping you in their thoughts and prayers.

 

[gottaluvPluto]

I just wanted to let you guys know I got to Canada safely. The flight was uneventful and so far the baby seems to be doing fine. We have our Dr appointment tomorrow morning to double check on him (and on me, I guess.)

Leaving was the hardest and most horrible thing I've ever had to do. It's been a nightmare since I got back too. It's honestly too horrible to talk about right now, I'll update you guys on the details when I can. I feel like the worst person in the world. I miss my cats. I want to go to bed and wake up and have this all have been a bad dream. My dad made an appointment for me to see a counselor next week, which I guess might be helpful.

Anyway, enough of the dramatics. I'll update quickly tomorrow after the Dr appointment, but I might need some time to talk everything else.

OP, don't feel like the worst person in the world. You did not cause this situation, HE did. You and your baby deserve to live in a safe and loving environment. Stay strong! You did the right thing. Take it one day at a time.

 

[Shmily1]

So glad you made it there safely. Your little man will make it all better in just a few weeks. Hugs and prayers to you all.

 

[tmrose03]

But know the person you're married to is a piece of **** and doesn't deserve you or your baby.

Agreed! I think you should (if you haven't already) talk with your family. I know if it were me mine, and his family would help no questions asked. So look to your family, then look for support groups, many are out there you may just have to look. And know someone is out there that is worth you and your child! And you know what they say about Karma!!

 

[ADisneyQueen]

I'm so glad you're safe. Each day you are going to get better and better. After a time you will not feel bad anymore and you will not hurt. Try to pamper yourself this week and relax by walking, watching a movie, anything that you've been too busy to do. You deserve a break.

 

[It'sWDW4me]

Glad to hear you're safe! No other words but please try to remember that you definitely did the right thing in leaving.

 

[Tiger926]

Welcome to Canada!

Sending strength your way, OP. Best of luck at the doctor's office and in settling in to your new home.

Tiger

 

[Glennie5]

So glad you made it home and you and baby are doing o.k. I know it must be very painful for you to have left but I promise you it will get better. It's time to let others take care of you now.

 

[Disneybuckeye]

So glad you made it there safely. I know things are very difficult for you right now, but please remember, it will get better. I am glad you are seeing a counselor to help you work through this.

Just remember, you did nothing wrong and you are keeping your child safe. I will keep you and your little one in my prayers.

 

[TNMouseFan]

So glad you made it! Sending Hugs your way!

 

[minniecarousel]

Whew! You are now where you should be (under these circumstances). Accept the TLC from your parents.

Hang in there.

 

[SaraJayne]

Glad you made it home safely.

 

[Imzadi]

I just wanted to let you guys know I got to Canada safely. The flight was uneventful and so far the baby seems to be doing fine. We have our Dr appointment tomorrow morning to double check on him (and on me, I guess.)

Leaving was the hardest and most horrible thing I've ever had to do. It's been a nightmare since I got back too. It's honestly too horrible to talk about right now, I'll update you guys on the details when I can. I feel like the worst person in the world. I miss my cats. I want to go to bed and wake up and have this all have been a bad dream. My dad made an appointment for me to see a counselor next week, which I guess might be helpful.

Anyway, enough of the dramatics. I'll update quickly tomorrow after the Dr appointment, but I might need some time to talk everything else.

I'm so glad you made it to Canada safely. I know it doesn't seem like it right now, but the worst is over. You LEFT and you made it to safe harbor with your REAL family and the real people who love you.

Hope all goes well at your Dr. appt tomorrow.

And you really don't OWE us any updates. You are going through so much. It's your private life. Post only if it helps YOU to know you have so much support here pulling for you and your baby.

 

[Tigger&Belle]

I can't even imagine what you're going through. Go easy on yourself....you've been through tons of stress in a very short period of time. You're now in a place where you're safe and can let your guard down a little, which is understandable. Feeling these feelings totally sucks, but talking things out with a therapist is a great idea.

 

[alex9179]

I'm glad you are done with that. I can't imagine how hard it was for you or what that guy you married is trying to do to you, now. You are not responsible for his failure to be a good husband. He owns that all by himself.

I just have to say, your dad is amazing. Not everyone would have made the effort to find someone safe for you to talk to about all of this, so quickly. You don't have to worry about legal issues or anyone's feelings but your own.

 

[wovenwonder]

As a parent to adult children I can only imagine how relived your parents are to finally have you home with them!! Lean on them as much as you need too. You are incredibly lucky to have their support.

 

[BernardandMissBianca]

You are the best mama ever!!!! Don't think for a minute you are the worst person ever. HE is the worst person ever.

 

[wdwmom0f3]

So glad you made it home safely. You have awesome parents. First they make appointments to check on your physical well-being, and then they made appointments to help you emotionally. Great support system.

I agree! I am also so happy that you have made it home safe and sound. You have done the right thing here even if it seems so hard right now. If you were my daughter I would be so very proud of you.

As a parent to adult children I can only imagine how relived your parents are to finally have you home with them!! Lean on them as much as you need too. You are incredibly lucky to have their support.

This is what I was thinking too. If my daughter was going through the same thing I would hope that she would let us help her and our grand baby. I learned a long time ago, and I tell my kids this all the time, your parents will always love you no mater what, and the only people that you can really count on to be there for you is your family.

You my dear are one very special, very smart young woman. You are already putting your baby's needs first and this is what will make you a wonderful mother. Hugs to you! This will not be easy but with the support that surrounds you, I am confident that you will be just fine.

 

[fairestoneofall]

I am so relieved that you made it home safely. Take care of yourself and your sweet baby.

And please, don't have guilt. Don't let him make you feel like you should have any guilt. You did NOTHING wrong!