Barb, forgot to mention that my oldest, Megan is at Cal State Northridge doing early childhood development. She is really very sweet and patient - where she got that from I have no clue but she really has a knack with teenagers.

I tell her its because she's their size and they think she's one of them. I bought her a t-shirt that says - I'm not short - I'm fun-size!
I tried suggesting teenagers but she says she doesn't like the drama. I told her - welcome to the adult world!
We are hoping that we only got 2 years there. She transferred from a Jr college. They had a great entry program. She tried going to a Cal State right out of high school but it didn't work for her and when she transferred back to the Jr college some counselor mistakenly told her the classes she took would not be credited. She believed him and didn't check with someone else and when she "graduated" from the Jr college, turns out all the classes she took were credited. She lost a year but in her case, I think it worked out for the better as she helped me a lot when April was going to confirmation classes.
She already knew from high school what she wanted and other than the standard, mom - I need a credit card, she did it all on her own. SNIFF. She left me out of it. So I guess I'm going to take full advantage of this one as she's my last. But I'll keep you in mind.
On Saturday, we went to the grand opening of the College Counselling fair at her school. We showed up 1 one hr late and ended up winning the biggest raffle basket there. WOO HOO

I never win. Course,all the gifts inside were April's size (like the t-shirt, sweatshirt, tank top, etc.) although I did get to keep the bag of coffee beans.

Anyone want some coffee beans for free? I got those one cup coffee maker.
Anyway, my point to all this, sometimes, they already know what they are meant to do. April? She's still pouring over the 3 inch thick book of college majors. She's scribbling furiously on a notepad I bought her and next month I'm dragging her to 2 open houses on the weekends she's not doing her SAT classes. SIGH. Looks like another year of me playing chauffeur.
Can't seem to find the time for her to get her license.