I was the one who suggested the letter and it was the 4th suggestion/option:
- Find another ortho and get a 2nd opinion/estimate.
- Does either you or your ex have ortho coverage? Most private insurances cover ortho at 50% and up to your yearly max.
- Tell your dentist what your ortho told you and that you are not happy he did not say something or even recommend those baby teeth be extracted.
- Write a long letter to your state's Board of Dentistry to tell them about your dentist's negligence in detecting your son's condition sooner, and that this will be a huge financial burden on you. They WILL listen and investigate.
Obviously, the op needs to get another opinion and if it along the same lines as what ortho #1 says, who wouldn't be upset. All anyone can do is complain to the dentist that he missed the boat on the non-treatment of obvious conditions and complain to the Board about it.
It's no different than the millions of people who are NOT mechanics, contractors, and plumbers complaining to the BBB about their mechanic, contractor, or plumber. They are not experts in those fields but that will not stop them from going away quietly if they feel cheated or wronged....